when i first met my wife she had 2 jobs.It was o.k. with me because she gave me both of her paychecks.She asked me if she can quit one of them.I said what for?.She said it is getting hard on her because she is pregnant.But she is only 3 months pregnent..should i let her or no?
2007-01-02 06:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sir, you are a real jerk! It is time to grow up and be a man. The baby should come first, not your comfort! Try reading about pregnancy and actually supporting your wife. Pregnancy is like adding two or three hardcore workouts a day to your schedule. All her energy should be focused on growing the baby and you need to refocus your life. It is time to take care of your woman and stop letting her take care of you. She needs to rest. Raising a strong healthy baby is THE MOST IMPORTANT JOB SHE WILL EVER HAVE, you have that job too. You are important to keeping that baby healthy and strong, you need to care for your wife, pamper her and make her rest. Make sure she has lots of variety of foods so that she can always have something to eat that won't turn her stomach, make sure you do a lot of the house cleaning, the chemicals are not good for her, hold her and rub her back, legs and any other muscles she wants to keep the blood flowing well and help her with the extra fluid in her body, and for goodness sake, go with her to the doctor and ask the doctor these and other questions.
Be a man, jerk!
2007-01-02 06:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from my problems with your "should I let her or no" statement...pregnancy is hard work! I'm only working one job and am having a devil of a time doing it. You are tired all the time - a fatigue the likes of which you will never (thankfully for you) have to feel. I have fallen asleep midsentence with my husband! Give her a break and all the support she needs. It's not easy being pregnant (even if you are "only 3 months pregnent")
2007-01-02 06:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is creating a whole new life. That alone is a job. You walk around with a serious case of the flu for about 4 months and then see what you think. If I was your wife, I wouldn't even be asking you anything. You'd get off your behind and do something.
2007-01-02 06:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amy A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asked you if she could quit one of them? She should be telling you that she is quitting. As for her giving you both paychecks, give me a break! What do you give her except a hard time. For Christs sakes, let her and the baby rest!
I feel sorry for her, I really do!
2007-01-02 06:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by kim_n_orlando 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lord man!!! are you trying to make her mad??? I was workin 2 fultime jobs and going to school part time untill i was 5 months pregnant and it was HARD the firt couple of months a womans body goes thru Big changes to acomadate to the baby and hormones are going crazy... don`t get me wrong they are gonna be like that the whole time she is pregnant but its really hard the first couple of monthes cuz we don`t want to give up our independence and we want to be super mom.. but suport her in EVERYTHING.. you don`t want to make a pregnant woman mad..
2007-01-02 06:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by hannah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I think you're selfish. You were "ok" with it because she gave you her checks???
If she wants to quit one let her. Pregnancy is tiring on you and your body. Why don't you get a job or a second job if you don't want to loose the money.
2007-01-02 06:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately let her as it is very exhausting being pregnant especially if this is her first pregnancy. She is going to just get more and more tired as she gets farther along.
2007-01-02 06:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by mamaone12000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should let her do what she wants to do since she is giving you the paycheck anyway it is not like she is keeping the money, if i was her i would do what ever i wanted to do, it is her life let her live it.
2007-01-02 06:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! because she has got be comfortable for the baby can be healthy its th best thing to do let her!
2007-01-02 06:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by *winterbaby* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come here so I can slap the crapola out of you!
What do you mean "should I let her?" that should be HER decision you butt hole!
2007-01-02 06:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋