within the past week everytime me and my husband go to have sex i havent been wet,i have never had this problem before we usually have alot fo foreplay and usuually all my husband had to do was start kissing me and i was wet.any ideas on what could be going wrong? thank you
2007-01-02 05:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by mybabylove87 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
try not thinking mch about that when u have sex.why don't u try doing him the foreplay first,that way u will turn him on faster and when he starts doing u the foreplay it wil be stronger than usual,and of course the effect will also be stronger.also try watching a movie or doing something u like b4 having sex.try not to let him notice that,sometimes when u are tired u can't be wet.u might also be angry wz him inside u.i don't know about that shower thing.people have sex in the shower.good luck
2007-01-02 05:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it could be stress, hormones, age, etc...... the best thing to do is if you think it's a health-related issue, see the doc, if it may be stress related, try something before sex to wind down..... take a bubble bath.... yeah, it may wash away your moisture or whatever, but if it helps you relax..... and don't be afraid to use lube.... it doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with either of you, otherwise, why would KY be making so much money? and coming out with a new product every few months? most of the time, i have no problem getting wet, but i dry out real quick so i use lube almost all the time & i'm only 21.... my friend, who is 22, has NEVER been able to get wet and she has trouble having an orgasm as well (she said she's only had 1 orgasm in her life while having sex with a guy, and i mean as far as having his penis inside her, not oral & stuff) but anyway, lube isn't a bad thing, and nowadays, with flavored lube, longer lasting lube, spray on lube, warming gel, etc., men & women alike have been opened up to all new sexual possibilities..... so experiment, & have fun doing it.... this may be the perfect time to start trying new things in the bedroom, plus that "new feeling" can make it more exciting, thus you may get even wetter........... and i don't care who thinks this is gross, its nature, & if you don't like it, move on to a different question
2007-01-02 08:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ashli B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problems. I never went to a doctor, but did narrow it down to stress. When I am stressing over something that stress follows me in the bedroom. Even though I know that I am about to be pleased...stress still over powers me and effects my wetness.
Get rid of the stress. Most stress can't be solved by the individual, nor most stress has nothing to do with the individual
2007-01-02 05:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by scmckin531 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you taking any new types of medications!!! Sometimes that can do it!!! I was on an antibitoic and couldnt get wet for the life of me! Also dont bath right before it washes away everything!!!
2007-01-02 05:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by scoobynscrappydoooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones most likely. try not bathing right before, it cleanses away any natural moisture, hey, there are some great heated oils and lubricants out there....
2007-01-02 05:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Darn hormones. Do not douche prior to. As we get older, we get drier, so you need a lubricant. Keep trying until you find one you both like.
Could you be menopausal?
It's not him and it's not YOU, it just happens.~
2007-01-02 05:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell my boyfriend but, I have the same problem *sigh*. Fortunately he doesn't notice.
one word: lube.
2007-01-02 05:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trouble geting wet? do you know these people. i dont care if they are strangers that is just gross.
2007-01-02 06:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Johny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try more fore play or use some ky jelly
2007-01-02 05:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋