30 weeks pregnant...is this stuff normal??? DR. has been NO help?

Question

It seems like its happening more now, like while walking it feels like my baby is slamming his arm out of my cervix.
the weirdest thing is when i really have to pee, and i cant because i feel like if i try to pee my baby will come out (thats how much pressure i feel there)
and my back, ever had really bad period cramps??? now put those at you lower back!!! it usually comes for a few hours, but i have to grab my fiance, because it really feels like im having period cramps in my back, and i dont have any other pain then that, and it usually doesnt last very long!
How do you know if you could be further along then they think??? i mean im meassureing my weeks, and i measure at 30 which is where i am, but how accurate is the measuring?? is it possiable i could be a bit further along then we thoguht and all this could be labour related???

thanks for answers!!!

oh, and i have what to expect when your expecting, its been my bible, but i cant seem to find my ansers there either

my doctor told me that it was nothing to be concerned about, that its something everyone feels,

i am anemic, could this have anything to do with it???

Answer 1

Its very normal...although, each baby's activity level is different. Infants will kick, punch and headbutt your bladder. Don't fear peeing!! You have to pee. You are a filter for two. You must continue to drink water. Yes, pressure against and in the lower back is normal...keep moving..walk. Ask your sweetie to rub your back for you...if you can stand it (some people can't at different stages of pregnancy). Try not to grab your fiance too hard...try to relax. Take a bath--and have your fiance help you in and out of the tub. Or, take a shower. Cramps in the lower back also may signal early and false contractions. You are getting close, so it will all be over soon. Your OBGYN should have an idea how far along you are...its gaged by the last period before you were pregnant...so, due dates are only a guesstimate. Gestation is normally 38 weeks. You want to go as far as you can with the pregnancy...having the baby early is not usually a good idea, unless it just happens or if it is medically necessary.

You're fine! The reason that your OBGYN may not be too overly concerned is that it is normal...but continue to communicate issues and concerns, regardless.

When you sleep, definitely sleep on your sides--not on your back (at least not for very long). The closer I got to having my first child...I could only sleep in a rocking chair.

Answer 2

I had that for a long time while I was pregnant. I always felt like the baby was kicking me between my legs. I would be walking and all the sudden stop. My friends would think I was going into labour. I still didn't know what was giong on. About period cramps. I never got that. I had a lot of lower back pressure, but my doc said it was carrying extra weight and the baby getting lower. If you were further along they would be able to tell when you get an ultrasound. Because of the growth of your baby. (Measurements) You ever see them take the mouse and meausre the babys head and length. That's what they go by. I don't think you're further along then what you think. I think it's just some of the pregnancy pain not all women get. I remember being at work they would always laugh when I would ask them (about feeling kicked between the legs). But if you're really worried you can alwasy see another doctor or do some research. A good pregnancy board is below. It's really great. Good luck to you and congrats on your baby.

Answer 3

Doesn't sound like labor to me, sounds like the baby is in a posterior position with his arm over his head. Don't worry though, you have plenty of time to move the baby before delivery. If the position of the baby continues to be uncomfortable try this... with an empty stomach lay back on your bed and put some pillows under your bum elevating it in the air about 12 inches. This will encourage your baby to "float" higher and give him the opportunity to turn over to face the right way and move his hand/foot, whatever, off your cervix. There are no guarentees he'll stay moved of course but if you do it daily until delivery you'll help make sure he's in the proper position for delivery. This exercise is called "The Breech Tilt" if you want to ask your doctor about it. Some women's pelvis' are just designed in a way that encourages poor presentation in babies, mine included.

Answer 4

It is always best to be safer than sorry. In other words, when you are having these cramping pains, it could be early labor. And back labor pains are the absolutely worst pains to have...one of my sons was a back labor, and it was the hardest delivery I ever had. If it is only Braxton-Hicks, they will send you back home, but if it's not, I'm sure you would rather deliver in the hospital than in the back seat of a car, or in a public place, or at home with no doctor present. Don't take the chance. Most doctors would rather you call or come in and get checked. And for Pete's sake, don't try to check yourself. That is a good way to get a nasty infection that could endanger your child.

Answer 5

I would have to say all normal stuff. I have had 3 children and felt all those same things. I measured where i was suppose to measure and thought the same things. Everything was fine i was just very uncomfortable the further along i got. It does feel weird when you have to use the bathroom the further along you get because the baby is dropping~getting ready for the big day!
Have you asked your doctor specific question's? He/she should be able to tell you that it is all normal and if it wasn't the doctor should be telling you that. I hope everything goes OK for you! Good luck and i hope i was helpful!

Answer 6

you could be further along, or it could be preterm labor.... i had my baby at barely 28 weeks pregnant.... but she turned out just fine.... mine was an all-of-a-sudden thing tho, oops, water just broke kind of situation...... but doctors can assume things sometimes.... i am not saying they don't know what they are talking about, but i am saying you may not be experiencing a "normal" thing, so they may just assume based on what details they have..... i was told severe cramping in your lower back was signs of true contractions, not braxton hicks, but i never experienced that (hence, not normal) i only had cramps in the front on the right side of my belly where my daughter had been stationed thru the entire pregnancy... i kept trying to tell the nurses, but they just assumed, "thats not normal, so let us know when you have back pain".... never did & a couple hours later, my baby girl was in the world..... so deep down, you KNOW what's going on, so if u are concerned, march back to your doc or the hospital, explain to them exactly what you are feeling, & insist on some kind of exam (ultrasound, etc.....) and tell them that the pain is very intense, which is adding to your stress, which may send you into preterm labor if you're not already..... so please go back & get checked, you don't want to have a preemie outside of a hospital....... good luck, hope all goes well

Answer 7

The lower back pain is most likely Braxton hicks contractions. The peeing thing is most likely be cause your baby has dropped and is resting on something very uncomfortable... I had symptoms much like yours, and everything turned out to be just fine. However, if you are worried, call your doctor or his/her nurse practitioner and state your fears.

...I'm anemic also. That doesn't have anything to do with what youre currently experiencing.

Answer 8

Whether its normal or not your doctor should be more helpfull. I would go back to the doctor (or a different on if you can) and request a vaginal exam.

It could just be that your cervix is getting thin and you are feeling the added pressure. You are close to having your baby and it starts doing some really funky stuff. Check with your doctor to be sure.

Good luck!

Answer 9

I would say most likely you are experiencing Braxton hicks contractions I had these to I thought a few times I was going into labor before I actually did. Anytime you feel though like you really are I would go to doctor but at the same time be prepared to be sent home disappointed Good luck I hope everything goes well!

Answer 10

It sounds like your kidneys and bladder are taking a lot of pressure. It is even possible your spine is being pressured. I suspect you are a slender person normally. This restricts the room for the baby, so your organs get pressured. It is uncomfortable, but there is not much the doctor can do. It's the way you're built.