2007-01-02 05:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by grabababa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Obviously your friend needs someone else to blame then taking responsibility for their own bad habit. I guess you need to ask yourself is it worth making a scene and maybe taking the chance of losing a friendship or just letting it go. Instead of making a scene is it something you could discuss with her rationally about your role in her bad habit? Just a thought. I would maybe just back off and let her have time to think about what she is accusing you of and maybe she will come to her senses.
2007-01-02 05:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely up to you whether you report her or not but as you say, you will be losing a friend over it. I can't see how her smoking cannabis affects you that greatly other than you not agreeing with it. Your friends argument that it causes less crime than alcohol is not a bad argument, in fact it's a very good argument that is totally justified because it's true. People who sit around and smoke cannabis won't have any desire to go out and act like a tool, get into fights or generally act like a mess in public. All cannabis does is make you relaxed and for some people it's good inspiration for their work/studying. Yes it is illegal but it's legal in a lot of countries these days and does that not show you something? It really isn't as bad as the government make it out to be and people like you who just accept that the government have said it's illegal so therefore it must be terrible are very close minded. Just because you have never been around drugs in the past, doesn't mean they are bad. I'm not condoning drug use on a large scale but smoking the odd bit of cannabis really isn't the end of the world. There are probably a huge number of people who smoke it at your uni and you only know about this one girl because she is your friend.....let me repeat that.....your FRIEND! All that will happen by you reporting her is that you will get your friend in trouble, lose your friend and be well known around the campus for being a snitch. Dependant on how strict your uni is then you could also get your friend into a lot of trouble and she could get kicked out of uni. Do you want that on your conscience?If you don't like it then I would advise you to just not be friends with this girl. Or explain that you have been close to reporting her and I'm sure she will soon decide she doesn't want you as a friend anyway. Just remember, nobody likes someone who gets involved in things that don't concern them. Take yourself away from the situation and leave others to do what they want.
2016-05-23 06:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion, your friend cannot blame you, I will give you an example, take your friend to a very busy road, ask your friend to run in front of a car, she will not? In other words you cannot make anybody to something they do not want to, that is common knowledge, so do not make a scene, tell your friend to grow up, we live in the real world?
2007-01-02 05:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by raymond l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she blame you ? did you tie her down and make her smoke, I do not think so. Tell her that she needs to look in a mirror when she points a finger next time. because it is out of her mouth and in her mind, not yours
2007-01-02 05:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
blamed it on you to who? dont take the blame for anything you havent done
2007-01-02 05:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody has to give an account for themselves, if your friend blames you for their problems then that person is not really your friend.
2007-01-02 05:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by vern7us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just drop it 2 me
2007-01-02 05:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by drea318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋