hi i am skylar i am in the 8th grade let me tell u my story
me and my friends had tryed out for the cheerleading team only to of us got in me and my friend rabecca so the first football game that we had to cheer for we won after the game we went to the pizza place for some pizza me and my friend rabecaa started hanging out with some of the other cheer girls at R shcool and ppl would notice me and rabecaa were hanging around the girls that everyone hates bc they are really mean but not to me or rabecaa so we had no idea that we were having the reflection that we are mean 2 ppl and aventaley i noticed and so did rabecaa so we are not sure if we should quit the cheerleading team or stay i really want to stay bc i really like cheerleading but i really do not want to have the reflection that i am mean what should i do??
2007-01-02 05:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by sky_pie!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As long as you don't act like the girls, then I see nothing wrong with it. Do what YOU want to do, and don't listen to other people. Just make yourself happy, and if Cheerleading makes you happy, then cheer. Other people will talk as that's what all kids do, but just do what makes you happy, and ignore them.
2007-01-02 08:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to quit cheerleading because the other cheerleaders are mean to your friend. You ought to continue being nice to this friend that the others hate. It will get under the others' skin that you don't act mean like they do. If the other cheerleaders begin to be mean to you because of the other girl, don't quit! Try to completely ignore those girls and be nice to THEM too! Trust me. Doing nice to people who do mean completely confuse them, and it keeps you on the good side of this whole deal!
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2007-01-02 13:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by among_ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like cheerleading, then keep at it! Don't stop because of the girls. Just try to keep your distance from them, and next time someone confronts you about it, just tell them that you aren't hanging out, and change the conversation. If you don't make it a big deal, no one else should. Good luck!
2007-01-02 13:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about not hanging out with the other cheerleaders and be urself around everybody else then mayby they won't think ur mean cuz ur a cheerleader lol
2007-01-02 14:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the better cheerLEADER. be friends with different people even if the other girls think it is lame. hangin with different people will show that you arent the mean one its the other person
2007-01-02 13:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋