Though we've been married for 8 years he seems to be happier with his "new" family, 3month old twins and another woman.He still lives at home and wants to have sex with me.I am 8 months pregnant with our 3rd child.I have no friends and family in this country.I feel as though I am losing my mind
2007-01-02 04:59:13 · 15 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This sounds crazy. He's using you for sex and only you know what else. How can you allow someone to treat you this way, hes given you 2 kids and one on the way and he has another family. He's having his cake and eating it are Your okay with this???? you need to fix up, get strong and give him an ultimatum otherwise hes just gonna keep walking all over you. if you can't do it for yourself then think of your kids they deserve better.
2007-01-02 05:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by buffeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just abusing you, get out of the relationship now. Give your children up for adoption, as long as you have them with you he will be able to find you, it will take a lot of courage on your part but you need to start a new life well away from him. Good Luck and God Bless you
2007-01-02 06:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Hado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not losing your mind you have already lost it. This man is using you, he has no feelings or respect for you, you are only a sex object for him and he has one other that you know about, and if there is one WHY not several. he has every thing he dreams of and you have nothing, except a man that you are willing to share. , What is wrong in this picture. Get you mind back and do what must be done.
2007-01-02 05:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good heavens, my lovely. That is certainly no way to live. I cna't advise you in any which way, other than perhaps let you know that if you do summon the ocurage to leave him, your midwife will support you plentifully and help get you in touch with all the right organisations. And if it is safe for you to do so, kick him out of the marital bed. You shouldn't allow him that privilege.
I hope it works out for you., and sorry I can't help you.
2007-01-02 05:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have tons of legal options out there - USE THEM! i live here without family too - its amazing how much support you will receive from friends and the community when you actually make a sincere effort to go looking for it. start by speaking to your friends - get a recommendation to a good attorney, of if no $, call legal aid. there's lots of social assistance available for single moms with low income. i would rather have this help than be a sperm deposit box for some idiot. remember he would have to continue to support you $ for the kids. he is abusing you - get out.
2007-01-02 05:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's done to you - he'll end up doing to the other woman.
If you can, and want to, kick him out. He's an a*sehole and a waste of skin.
And, remember, there are many single men out there who'd feel blessed to take his place. And become true fathers to your family. An a soulmate to you.
But you need to get rid of this parasite first.
Good luck. xxx
2007-01-02 05:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone the Jeremy Kyle Show and shame the git on national television.
2007-01-02 05:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U hve no option to tell ur man n convince him not pursuade him then hve an understanding but dont indulge in s with him any more /he does not desereve /i dont want to say much bu after delivery leave this country n start fresh/ i can not stand this/ people can be that.....God bless u . i pray for yr peace/ sometimes people do face such problems butsolution comes automaticaly/ dont loose heart/ face with courage/ but discuss openly with him/ dont deceive him/ tell him ur plans / leave amicably/ My good wishes r with u /if possible keep me informed/ if i am wrong forgive me. r
2007-01-02 05:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going crazy! because you stayed with the jerk and are pregnant again! If the first 2 kids didn't keep him happy the 3rd isn't. Leave him now!
2007-01-02 05:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Wesley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick him out it i was in your position. He trating you like dirt so put a stop to it. Go and talk to your docter who can give you loads of advice and helpline numbers. Good luck!
2007-01-02 05:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋