my husband says the only time I am happy is if we are having ***
we are both 32 and we have had a lot of time off from work so what is wrong with wanting to take advantage of that? before we had kids it was all the time now I'm lucky for once a week...is this normal?
2007-01-02 04:54:43 · 5 answers · asked by His 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is quite normal to see ups and downs in sexual intensity between a married couple. And from what you say, you seem to have a great deal of sexual energy and drive and passion in you. It might be just true that you are indeed happier when you make love.
I can relate to you though I'm a man. I feel more confident and happier when I have sex more often. Intimacy is a big thing in life for me. If it isn't just about making out, it sure can be kissing, cuddling, just having fun together, being playful and teasing sometimes, etc. I enjoy being playful when I'm not having sex. Thats what I guess you seem to miss too.
Feel free to write or share your thoughts with me - IM/email me if you'd like.
2007-01-02 05:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe, it is not normal when a person is active in the very beginning he should be the same all the time that you think so, I would personally look at other possibilities, that are hiding in the closet they could be factors that are contributing to this dilemma. Do not give up find the problem?
2007-01-02 05:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by raymond l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids will make a definite change in your lifestyle. Why not take advantage of time for yourselves if the kids are not home--nothing wrong with it.
2007-01-02 07:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and my wife should have a talk. D A M N!!!!!! That sucks!!!! How could I have gotten stuck with a person that doesn't want it as often as I do. It's really sad, but now I understand why people cheat......... & for the record, HELL NO,.... IT AIN'T NORMAL!!!!!!! WE SHOULD BE HAVING PLENTIFUL AND HEALTHY SEX!!!!
2007-01-02 08:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by HARDBALZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a whiner, hell I would love a wife that wanted to bang it out often,, good for you,,
he should do you daily, 32 yo , you are in your prime, he should not waste this time either,
2007-01-02 05:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋