My now boyfriend and I have been through a lot.... I was engaged to a guy i was sure i was gonna marry, but things just didnt work out because of distance. Soon after the problems started, I had decided not to tell anyone, my best friend told me that he had been in love wit me for about 2 yrs. I was stunned cause I had wanted to be wit him even be4 my fiance. I started dating another guy, one of my other good friends but things just werent working there either. Through my entire relationship my other best friend Adam was winning me over, he'd always say the sweetest things and would treat me like a first class princess. So i left my boyfriend to be wit Adam. Soone enough i wasnt able to see him much or even talk to him, being it was the holidays.... It just worried me that we had fought to be together so much and that suddenly my ex that i left to be wit Adam was showing me more affection and love than Adam was... Idk how to tell him but i need him to back or I might just leave him....
2007-01-02 04:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by maidenis m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just say, "hey look, I am feeling a big neglected here" and then just tell him what you want.
2007-01-02 04:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to find out what love really is and isn't. Sit down together and read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter". You will see that love is patient and kind and doesn't seek its own way at the expense of others. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of the other. It also says that out of faith, hope and love that love is the greatest one. If you aren't experiencing this kind of love, you are experiencing something else, which probably could be called lust. Lust will fail, but true love will last for the rest of your lives. My wife and I have had it for over 28 years. If everyone had this true love, there wouldn't be so many divorces.
2007-01-02 13:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from relationships.. You are to dependant.. These guys are going to be hurt.. as you would if circumstances were reversed.. Adam is a wuss for hangin
2007-01-02 15:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by MistrMann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you just need to realize no man wants marriage that young and that you are just a piece of as that sticks around to long. look for meaningful when your older right now your just anopther piece of meat. i knwo this sounds harsh but its true.
2007-01-02 12:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋