Ok so i dont mind my friend being a lesbian cuz she has the right to, but whenever she comes over she brings some girl with her and they'll just start making out. wat do i do?
2007-01-02 04:37:36 · 8 answers · asked by SunshineShortie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her you have nothing agaist gay people but that you dont feel comfortable when they make out in front of you. tell them there's time for everything and that when they visit you is to hang out with you not to make out in front of you! i kinda have the same problem with my brother. he is gay and once a week I stay with him and mom. he wants to go to a gay club and I like it too but sometimes he makes out infront of me but who am I to complain about it when it's me, the straight person in a gay bar the one who shouldnt be there if i cant handle it? but you have it easier.
2007-01-02 05:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by chikis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so tell her that you don't agree to it but tell her in a good way. if you are best friends she will respect this. if she is bringing some girl at your place well how old is she??....=D.....cuz i am gay but i don't have a girl to make out with her. anyway.....i thank you that you don't have anything with gay people...its really rarely a person that doesn't have nothing with gay people.
what do u do if she is gay? well be yourself..understand her... Be there for her....don't be afraid of her..if one day she hits on u tell her that you are not interested in her and make her understand why.... be there for your friend....
its important to tell her in a good way that you don't want her bringing some girls just to make out with...if you say this in a wrong way you risk to losing her....
good luck and i hope this helps...bu bye....
2007-01-02 12:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be open and honest with her. Let her know that you have absolutely no problems with her being a lesbian...but you don't want to be tortured with those visuals everytime you two hang out! If she doesn't listen, then she's not your friend.
2007-01-02 12:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there is not much you can do but be her friend and tolent of her just becouse it is girl she makes out should not matter if you want the frienship to last talk to her and tell how you feel maybe the 2 of you can come to terms with somethings just be upfront and honest with her and tell her first that you value the friendship and do not want to lose it Good luck
2007-01-02 12:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them know, in the same way if it was a boy girl relationship, let her know that it makes you uncomfortable, and they need to get a room. Just keep reminding her to get a room.
2007-01-02 13:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect that but if she is making out w/someone in front of you then confront her abou it dont let it keep bothering you
2007-01-02 13:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl if you dont like it tell her,but if you like her them ways there tell her.
2007-01-02 13:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing
2007-01-02 13:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋