I have had a strange relationship on the web with a man younger than me and some people say I am cheated on my husband.
I can spend connect myself each day and won't waste a single minute.My husband says he is crazy for me in a way and that he can't do anything about it.
May be I will never meet that man.
He seemed ashamed to acknowledge he has got a new girlfriend for a whole month. Funny I felt hurt.
Nevertheless I got him on the phone yesterday and after that he was as nice as ever as if relieved.
We are so close and share so many things in common.
2007-01-02 04:14:49 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Bo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is.
2007-01-02 04:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Carl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey There...
Your situation is tough but not uncommon these days. I think it's ultimately up to each individual and their principles. But I suppose there are some factors you could consider to help you make your decision.
Firstly, if the scenario was reversed and it was your husband doing what you are doing and then you found out... how would you react? What would you think and feel? Cheated or liberated?
The wonderful world of cyberspace is great... if you know the limitations. You get to create amazing friendships and mind blowing bonds with so many people. Innocent flirtation and flattery feels great. You end up feeling confident and fuzzy for the rest of the day. But could you leave it at that?
It's human nature to be greedy. If something or someone is forbidden or out of reach, the desire for that/them intensifies... but is it worth risking your marriage and stability? Only you can decide that.
Remember to be realistic. Those daydreams and heart swellings are easy to get swept away by... but keep yourself grounded by thinking rationally and logically as well as long term...
Who knows? Maybe he IS your soul mate. But I bet your husband is too... remember why you fell in love with him in the first place?
Good luck... I hope it all works out.
2007-01-02 12:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by missy lissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are cheating. Emaotional cheating and physical cheating are both equally wrong. You should be sharing your feelings and thoughts with your husband, not another man. Also, this time spent with this man should be spent with your husband. If you husband was having cybersex with the same women online all the time - you would consider it cheating. What you're doing is wrong, you need to tell your husband and let him decide if he wants to stay with you after you did this.
2007-01-02 12:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES any way you look at it Yoyr the one who have to answer to God and you hubby when he find out but God nkows and see what you are doing that's not being true nor faithful to your hubby when he leave you for that and be with some one who apprciate him then you will be sick with you internet love and who knows it may even be awomen on the net your lost. Try and flirt with your husband on the net or if he don't do the net then on the phone it's up to you is it worth it?
2007-01-02 12:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you cheated emotionally. You should talk to to your husband and resolve whatever issues you have. You never know if the other guy is a phsyco. He won't even acknowledge you. Your husband is real and he loves you. Don't throw it away.
2007-01-02 12:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Just me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well of course it's cheating. If the relationship was just a friendly type situation then you would have told your husband about it. Think about your feelings if the situation were reversed.
2007-01-02 12:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by michelle a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultery, and yes it is. Any relationship where you share physical and or emotional intimacies with anyone other than your spouse is adultery.
Would it be acceptable to you for your husband to have a similar relationship?
2007-01-02 12:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should watch it with this....you are treading dangerous ground. If you are developing feelings for him you should step back because you could be cheating on your husband emotionally, eventually you are going to want to meet him, and the physical will follow......
2007-01-02 12:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by HustleGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit living in la la land. wake up before you lose your reality. you are cheating. period. this man on the internet is like a fantasy novel, not the love of your life who you apparently married - have the iq to know the difference.
2007-01-02 12:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt get too wrapped in online relationships especially if no cam as they might not be what they seem you do what right 4 you dont forget you have husband so he can have girlfriend as sex on line never beats the real thing
2007-01-05 18:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing anything you have to hide from your spouse, it is cheating. If your husband is fully knowledgeable of everything, it is not. Either way, what you are doing does not sound healthy.
2007-01-02 12:28:33 · answer #11 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋