I'm a healty 24 year old female. During the past few weeks, I've lost my desire to have sex. I'm even having some pain when we do have sex. This really worries me b/c my fiance and I are getting married in 3 weeks. Could this be stress from last minute wedding details? I'm really hoping this is all it is. I dont' want to start off my marriage this way. Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
2007-01-02 04:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by jamie6882 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Probably stress. Maybe you should wait till your wedding night. My husband and I did that. We stopped having sex about a month before the wedding. Made the wedding night more special. You are having pain because you aren't aroused so you aren't lubricated. If you get my drift. You haven't lost desire....you are stressed out. Welcome to the world of being a bride. Happens to all of us.
2007-01-02 04:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably stress-related, but could also be partly due to a decline in your relative level of testosterone -- you're around the age when your estrogen levels will be peaking and counteracting your testosterone which is the hormone which gives both males and females their sexual drive.
2007-01-02 06:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sometimes it happens due to sheer anxiety, it happens to men also, take marriage as a normal procedure.
New family, new faces it is a multifocal factors, try to relax.
Best of luck in future life and may you lead happy wedded life.
Regards,
Dr.Qutub.
2007-01-02 04:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing the problems with sex because both you and your future husband feel that sex is your duty. Your duty. Please, I beg you. I am the voice of experience on this one. I knew the marriage was wrong but I did it anyway because the invitations had already been sent. Do not get married. It will only end in failure. Please.
2007-01-02 04:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 08:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u feel honey i know what u feel. Used to go for anything, now all i can do is eat. Ive gained 15 pounds in the last 2 weeks nothing fits me and i feel sluggish and unintersted in anything other than yahoo awnsers and eating.
2007-01-02 04:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Hermaphrodite 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ill pray 4 u
2007-01-02 04:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it..its just the butterflies...besides your getting married...everyone feels weird before marriage.
2007-01-02 04:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Saint Justice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had a baby.. is sooooooo normal
if not then could be stress.. ask your doctor.
2007-01-02 04:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mystic Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure but ill pray for you.
2007-01-02 04:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by jillscowboys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋