he can see what i do. is there a way i can see what and who he is talking to?
2007-01-02 03:57:32 · 14 answers · asked by iowan62 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Security
well just tell him you want to see, your stepping into something that can cause major issues of trust, but there are ways, you can goto history and see where he is going. you can also goto the cookies and see. i am leary about the next suggestion because it can do more harm than good.
you can get keyloggers that keep track of everything typed on the screen. but you have to be careful as some of them are very malicious viruses. i will not recommend any as i would hope that you could just talk to him and straighten it out.
2007-01-02 04:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by boominz28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck unless you are a computer expert. My daughter is going through the same thing. NO privacy and lots of questions, constantly. My sugestion, start going to the library, use their computers to open your own NEW internet account, and work from there. Don't fall for "I won't do it anymore", because he will. My daughter even tried to erase the history, but he restored it. Also, if he is smart enough to do all this, he will find out you are checking his and he WILL be able to delete his so you can't restore it. Now the bad thing. He will see this (unless you are using someone else's computer), so he will know what you are up to when you start going to the library so often.
2007-01-02 12:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pat J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont say on what prog he uses to talk to people would that be msn or yahoo if it is both have the facility to saved all incoming and outgoing messages/text, and just becatrator of the pc you both use does not mean he can what you do unless he has put a nother prog like net nanny and hidden it with a password then yes he could see every keystroke you use but unless he suspects you of infidelity then i dont think it very likely that he has. ne way to activate message saving just go to the tools section of the messenger he uses and and put a tick in the save messages, then make a note of where they will be kept and just check them after he is finished. good luck, need ne thing else just im me or email stormin_85@hotmail.co.uk
2007-01-02 12:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband has administrator rights and you don't...
And you're asking to see what and who he is talking to...
Then this is a really terrible marriage.
2007-01-02 12:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by shiroi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how he has set the downloading and installation protocols, and on how computer literate he is, one option is to install a keylogger. This will trace keystrokes and e-mail them to an account. If you decide to do this, please make sure you have a clean copy.
Other, non-invasive ways include checking history and cookies after he's been on. If he clears them every time, then you may have reson to be suspicious.
2007-01-02 12:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are part of the Admin group of your PC, plus you can add a keylogger if you have admin rights withut him knowing, but if he finds out it's on there, he'll be more careful. The best way for him to think you are faithful and good and you think it about him is to not use that computer.
John
A+ Certified
2007-01-02 12:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by A+ Certified Professional 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way is to establish yourself as an adminstrator to monitor his web activities. Otherwise you would have to purchase commerical software that tracks net movements.
2007-01-02 11:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by hwky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You also should have unlimited access so you can download this program perhaps you should get another computer of your own and check this site out.http://www.pcpandora.com/info/spouses.php that way you will know if he is cheating etc..
2007-01-02 12:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to me there is a trust issue there. That should not be in a marriage.
2007-01-02 11:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by capnemo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him! Otherwise, the 2 of you have serious marriage and trust issues that you need counseling for.
2007-01-02 11:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋