Okay, in my mind i wouldnt care if my husband cheated on me as long as he used protection. Is something seriously wrong with the way i think?
2007-01-02 03:57:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And by the way..I do love my husband very very much. Anyone in an open relationship?
2007-01-02 04:01:35 · update #1
And i havent cheated on him...thank you very much
2007-01-02 04:03:10 · update #2
yes, but if you want to cheat, i will use a condom with you....
2007-01-02 03:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Import Car Salesman 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you need to take a step back and evaluate your marriage and relationship. Why wouldnt you care? And I think "in your mind" and if it really happened would be very different.
Do you think that way because you are cheating? Do you not enjoy intimacy? Do you no longer love your husband?
I could never imagine feeling that way about my husband!
2007-01-02 04:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by his temptress 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't care? I don't think there is anything wrong with you other than you have a very low self worth and esteem. You don't go to the trouble of getting married to send your spouse out there with a box of condoms and expect anything good to come of it. Why do you think that way? Did you give up already on your marriage?
2007-01-02 04:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by BudLt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world accept infidelity? Have you forgotten your vows? There's no way I would accept my husband or myself to cheat regardless if protection was used or not. I think that's the point of being married you're promising each other to be with each other til death. Infidelity is such a betrayal and speaks volumes about a persons character whether one commits it or whether one tolerates it. Happy New Year.
2007-01-02 04:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, for sure.... where were you raised, and what is a marriage to you?????
If marriage is respect, admiration, passion, and trust, with a whole lot of lovies, providing a caring environment for children should you choose to have any, shared experiences, quiet times beside a fire, hobbies together, dinner and fun with friends... yadayada, then what you have is a roommate. If you think a marriage is the same as an occasional boinking buddy roommate, then, hey, have at it..... most of us would just call it that, rather than a marriage..... and besides, got proof he is wearing a rubber????????????????
2007-01-02 04:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not really because your in love with him and don't know what really to think if he does. But saying for him to use protection meets you want to tak ecare of yourself. But maybe in your mind you should be worried becasue no woman shouldn't care if her husband is cheating on her. SO want to chat more about it just IM me.
2007-01-02 04:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That reminds me of a joke.
A man is going on a business trip and he notices that his wife has packed a condom in his case.
He asks her why she's done that, because he'd never cheat on her.
She says that she knows that and she trusts him but in this day and age with AIDS and otehr things, just for her own safety and peace of mind, she thinks it's a good idea for him to take it just in case something happens.
So he says "OK, darling, as you put it like that I agree - but for the love of God at least give me a whole packet!"
2007-01-02 04:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depend on what you expect out of your marriage. If the two of you went into your marriage with the idea that you would be faithful to each other, that's one thing. If you have agreed to an open marriage, and have established rules for what is and isn't acceptable, that's something else.
It's hard to say whether you're crazy or not without out knowing your expectations.
2007-01-02 04:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well what that may mean is you feel your connection with ur husband is more then a sexual situation! you guess connect on another level! but now you may want to sit back and think more into that like do you look at ur husband as more of a friend then a companion or do u love him or are u in love with him! you might have another situation which is making you feel this way because honestly honey i def wouldn't say that too loud! and they whole reason us women don't want our hubby's cheating is because we don't want to lose them to another woman! so becareful!
2007-01-02 04:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Would you care if he suddenly decided on a favorite over you? Of course! The human is made to be monogomous. True, many relationships don't work out in the end. However, if a relationship is going to ultimately survive, it has to begin by being exclusive.
2007-01-02 04:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by abby j 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your feelings about your relationship. Do you guys swing? Do you cheat on him. There are a lot of different questions that need to be asked to get to the bottom of this.
2007-01-02 04:00:14 · answer #11 · answered by Confused 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋