was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?
Does this mean anything about my ex gf?
i caught my ex kiss another guy it hurts bad i love her still!! she said shes really sorry, she said it wud hurt if she saw me too! she said we arnt together any more, she said that gut ment nothing and that im a beter kisser i dont knw why she said that!she was flirting with me all that night but then she got really drunk! i thought we would end up back together cause she was ringing me the whole time and askin me to go out with her, she said she wants to be freinds..
2007-01-02 03:32:25 · 19 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's a drama queen on an ego trip. It may be painful at first but let her go. She's too immature to know what she wants all she knows how to do is get an emotional response out of you. As long as she can keep you on a string and gets a reponse when she yanks it, that's what she wants, especially when she sees you with someone else. Best thing you can do is move on and don't look back. Happy New Year.
2007-01-02 03:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 76 yrs. young lady and have 5 grown children(3 boys & 2 girls)and all are happily married, including my husband of 54 years. I tell you this because I have seen a lot in a large extended family. I will plead with you here.
This girlfriend of yours will ruin your life. She is wishy washy and playing one heck of a game with you and how is that working for you ? Get a hold of yourself and dump her at once. I am no Dr. but she sure sounds bi-polar. She's a drunk, she's loose. You havn't lost a thing when you walk away from this. Right now she is playing you for a big sucker and you are going right along with it. Where did you meet the likes of her ???? You want to grow old with someone decent, don't you ? Your going to need to look some place decent. Get a dog, go for walks in the park. Go to church , get in Bible study groups of a big church. Get started off right in this New Year making some changes, but Please get rid of this irresponsible person. Your story of her drives me crazy. I would hate to think you were one of my sons. It would break my heart to know someone had no more respect for him then she does. She is messed up and this is only the beginning. Wake Up !!!! Don't delay~~~~ Have a Good New Year !!
2007-01-02 12:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude....move on. She is obviously using you as a safety net. So, when her plan fails with other dude, she can come back running 2 you, and you, being in love with her, will be her superman and save her.....she's obviously confused. Let her know, "I'm not down for you running back to me". This means that ur ex gf might still want you, but it's a very slim chance, about 10%. I say move on.....find someone better who would love you and not use you
2007-01-02 11:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hinata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have posted this question before ,so I'll give the same answer ,she sounds like she is in the game playing stage of her life,the real question is are you going to play it with her? If you think all this non-sense it worth it then go after her and play her games,if not then break lose and move on to a women who is willing to be went you and love you with out all the games.Good luck to you.
2007-01-02 11:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by youngprincez23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants her cake and to be able to eat it too.She says she don't want you but when she thought you were going with someone else, she freaked.
You see, She knows that she wants you but she also is afraid of the idea of committing herself to just you.She likes to flirt with other guys and maybe sometimes considers dating different men to see which one is the one that "floats her boat"the best.
Your problem is your not playing the dominant role which is what I think she needs.
I have seen this and been through this myself.Truth is, she loves you but you don't challenge her.You make yourself available to her too easy.
Women weather they will admit it or not like a challenge, not a push over.Go out, dint call her right back, ignore her calls till later then call her back. Act kinda like you may have someone else.
When she gets all upset,stand your ground and stand up for yourself.Say:"hey,I love you and I have been here for you but I am not going to sit around and play games!" " I need and want a women who will love me and be there for me too.If that's going to be you than you need to stop your crap and be with me, or move on and I will find the one that will!"
Trust me she will be running back sooner than you think.
Good luck!
2007-01-02 11:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to keep you close enough so that if things don't work out for her, you'll be there waiting. That's why she's kissing, txting, calling, playing jealous, etc. Tell her the ball is in her court, you have feelings for her, but will do whatever she does. if she wants to play, fine - you'll explore new friends too. If she wants to get together, fine. You'll put the time into the relationship.
2007-01-02 11:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by eleven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This girl doesn't love you and it sounds like she was playing with you to get you back for making her jealous about the girl you were texting. Let her go, don't speak to her, ever.
2007-01-02 11:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl is playin games get over it and find someone who is a better kisser than her and tell her bout it
2007-01-02 11:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is playing with your emotions. Its like she wants you and the other guy without the commitment to just one person. I think you should just leave her alone because she is just going to keep stringing you along.
2007-01-02 11:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is PLAYING YOU FOR A ""FOOL"" she does not want you , but she DOESNT WANT ANYONE ELSE to have you either. Drop her, go on with your life and be happy. If your ex is doing this now she will ALWAYS do this.
2007-01-02 15:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋