I'll try to make this quick. . .I dated this guy about a year ago and fell head over heels for him. I found out from my best friend that he cheated on me and used me, yet she always hung out with him as friends. I was jealous, but I got over it and moved about an hour away. Well, she is married and just had a baby six weeks ago. I found out the other day that she thinks her marriage is failing and that she is cheating on her husband, with my ex! What is your opinion?
2007-01-02 03:15:12 · 12 answers · asked by Rosie aka Rosie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She and her family have done a lot to help me get my life together. And what's really weird is, I'm not that upset, I just don't know what to think!
2007-01-02 03:26:37 · update #1
let her dig her own hole, dont get involved. besides hes a loser anyway
2007-01-02 03:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by sissy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think she shouldnt do a friend like that.but he is your ex and being "the better friend" wish her well after all shes not asking for your blessing if shes already bedded down with him.
but i would point out out of friendship that he did cheat on you....he is a cheater ...once a cheater always a cheater....
is she sure the baby isnt your ex's
and the reason her marriage is felling is probley becouse shes doing your ex..
are you sure he cheated on you maybe she just wanted him for her self or could she had been one of the affairs he had?????
she probley didnt even think how this would affect you not to say it would have matter anyway.
good luck on that one is she worth keeping as a close friend...
2007-01-02 03:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by michelle e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi - I don't know how old you are ... but ... it took me 45 years to realize that when there are people in your life that are cheating, treating you badly, etc. - just let them go - you do not need that in your life. Be classy - just let it go - and I probably would really try to ease out of your "friendship" with this girl - she's not a good person if she's cheating on her husband .. Take Care.
2007-01-02 03:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by emmmay61 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, she is not you friend and I think sub-consiously, you already know that because you moved an our away from the situation...why get drawn back into the loser drama now? You deserve better than that and having her, or you ex, back in your lives. If they want closure, tell them to go on being on the Jerry Springer show, but you have more class than that!
2007-01-02 03:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that she's going to get hers pretty soon.
Also, she doesn't seem like the kind of person you should want as a friend, not because she dated your ex, but because she's cheating on the person she vowed to be loyal to for life. Can a person who breaks promises like that really be a good and trustworthy friend?..
2007-01-02 03:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She deserves what she gets. You know the truth about him as well as she does but she chose to ignore the facts. Your friend seems like the type to not stay with one person for long and knowing what you've said about your ex, they aren't long for the togetherness thing. Let nature take it's course.
2007-01-02 03:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need some new friends if she knows how much of a jerk he was to you and still wants to date him then she must not be ant better .If she can cheat on her husband and child she does not sound very trust Worthy any ways
2007-01-02 03:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by SAHM and proud of it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she is cheating then her marriage is failing.
You are done with the ex so I wouldn't worry about that, just try to council your friend so that she understands that adultery is never the answer!
2007-01-02 03:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what if she just lied that he cheated so that you would break up with him, and she could have him for herself. she is not your friend, friends dont do that even if he is your ex.
2007-01-02 03:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that means u sort of knew this was coming.. u know what let her handle it herself.. anyway i dont think shes really a friend
2007-01-02 03:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS NOT UR BEST FRIEND BECAUSE A BEST FRIEND WOULD NOT DO WHAT SHE IS DOING. 4 GET ABOUT HIM AND 4 GET ABOUT HER AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE.
2007-01-02 03:21:38 · answer #11 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋