Be Honest
2007-01-02 03:13:51 · 48 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guyz, seems some are not being honest afterall. Believe me, many wont if they had to. They are not being true to themselves. I specifically used the word ugly, not average looks, though I really believe that all of us are special and no one is ugly. Infact Its ugly of me to have said that but looks are very important to me, average would do but not ugly.
2007-01-03 02:31:52 · update #1
if I really loved the way they were on the inside - i doubt that i would think they were ugly physically - you learn to love the person as a whole
2007-01-02 03:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by erindrozda 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. I've fallen for outer beauty and have learned the hard way that sometimes the most gorgeous people can indeed be the cruellest. I've also been in a relationship with a guy who would not be considered even as plain, but it turned out to be one of the best, most nurturing ones I've had. I hated when the relationship ended when he had to migrate. Deep down, I still love him, and it's because he has true inner beauty; generousity, kindness, wit, and never a mean word to say about anything or anyone. That kind of character leaves a mark on your heart permanently, and remains forever, long after hair thins, muscles lose definition and taut skin sags.
2007-01-02 03:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by foxiee_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because looks are fleeting. Say you married the most physically stunningly beautiful girl in the world, and then a month after the wedding there is an accident and she is facially disfigured, would you leave her because of that? Most people know that the real person is inside, and the outside shell is just the wrapping paper.
2007-01-02 03:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as they say Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what you consider ugly someone else may consider beautiful.
love is not about just physical beauty, for some people it may be part of it, but marriage is about love and that comes from the heart and if they are ugly on the outside or the inside it wouldn't matter to the person who loves them.
to answer your question yes I would
2007-01-02 03:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by shambuca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want an honest answer, I'd say it depends on how ugly she really is. I mean, sure she may have a beautiful personality which I do care about a lot, but if she's butt ugly, then sorry. I don't know, that's just how I am. I mean I'm not saying that I look like a Prince, but it's just my way of thinking, sorry.
2007-01-02 03:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sid 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, afterall beauty fades and you are left with personality only. I dated a guy one time that was not the least bit attractive, but his personality was so incredible that it didn't matter. When people would see us as a couple they couldn't understand what the connection was until they got to know him and I even had other women tell me they would love to have dated him, it was very flattering.
2007-01-02 03:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a man at my church who has a disfigured face because of a car accident. He has a wife and 3 beautiful children and they all adore him. He is a great person and he has great courage too as he sometimes sings solos in front of the entire church. He has so many good things about him that I don't think anyone he hangs out with regards him as "ugly." We all like being around him.
2007-01-02 03:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by cschulenberg01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I have. People consider my husband to be "beneath me" and not attractive looking at all. Funny thing is, he's the best person I have ever met with a huge warm heart. I love him more and more everyday and will continue to do so for the rest of my life. So long as you are special, people will see that. Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-01-02 03:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cause think of it this way if you marry a beautiful person phycally there not always gonna be that way, but if there beautiful on the inside that will never change and looks are just like icing on the cake you can have to much.
2007-01-02 03:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by 19years_young 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
although I'm not an expert but life taught me that the beauty is within, appearance is just a body which protect all important organs, it is something which can be damaged so easily but love no one can take it from you is only you who decide what to do with it. love is all about emotional connection it is about understanding, caring and respect for each other.and don't ever let anyone dictate you judgment, i hope this will make you to take a very wise decision
2007-01-02 03:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by curtis m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get to choose who you fall in love with. The love of my life was the least attractive person I ever dated. True love is a very rare thing, don't count on it to ever happen again.
I wish I could have married her, looks are less and less important as the relationship goes on. But she was damaged goods and ended up cheating to sabotage the relationship.
She had beautiful eyes and a charismatic personality.
2007-01-02 03:22:00 · answer #11 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋