what should i do????????????/
People call me alot of bad names and it hurts
2007-01-02 03:01:51 · 15 answers · asked by Kat LEEN is the best 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't control what other people choose to do. You can only attempt to influence them with your own actions and control your own response to their behaviors. You can figure out for yourself how to be influential (or not). I will only advise your to control your own response to their bullying. Ignore the name calling and anything else that is not physically harmful to you. Only you know your own value in the world. If your school mates are too young and foolish to see you for who you really are, they are the ones who are suffering, not you. As you get older and you grow into your potential, people's attitudes about you will change and you will not be bullied. If there is any sort of harmful physical contact you should report it to your teachers and school administrators as soon as it happens. It is there responsiblity to protect you while you are in their care.
Lastly, on a personal note, I had some friends who were bullied in school and it upset me. I decided to stand up for them one day. I was not a very large child relative to the bully but I just hoped that could win a fight. It turns out that the bully wasn't very strong or tough afterall and he was easy to beat in a fight. (I had a lot of experience losing fights to my older brother) so when I won, and he ran away with his bully friends, everything changed in our schoolyard. A couple weeks later, one of the nerdy kids that used to get picked on alot also beat up the bully in a fight and after that he never bullied people any more.
2007-01-02 03:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by P Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a cell phone? Record some of the abuse...tell some people in positions of authority that it's becoming impossible to study and function under the stress. Don't do anything until it gets physical;and then when somebody places their hands on you, go absolutely bananas! I mean tear them a new azzhole and pull it over their heads. When they call the police or the security to take you in, explain why you did what you did and show them the evidence and paper trail...you'll never be bothered again!
2007-01-02 03:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the only person of colour in a small school, in a small town. so to say I was bullied was is an understatement...I finally developed a quick wit...and tougher knuckles. I did not win all my fights but everyone i fought with knew they were in one the next day. The bottom line is "what's it going to take for you to stand up for yourself."
2007-01-02 14:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by baddad_63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. I was bullied, too. I'd come home and tell my mom that I cried at school that day. I would tell her about the girls picking on me. She told me she was going to go to the office and and talk to the principle 'cause she wanted it stopped. If your mom or dad doesn't listen, go straight to the principle. Good luck.
2007-01-02 08:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make good grades, the highest grades you can possibly make and just ignore them.
I also advise reading the Tao Te Ching. Makes it easier to flow with people who conflict with you.
"Because he does not act for his own ends,
nor cause unnecessary conflict,
he is held to be correct
in his actions towards his fellow man."
2007-01-02 03:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by shiroi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just names, grow a thicker skin lad.
If they're hitting you or pushing you around- hit back.
Punch somewhere like the nose, throat or groin. That'll stop the bastards.
If it's a *******, just bring a bull-whip to school- them coloured folks are well afraid of those- it's in the genes you see.
Remember:
A bully is only a bully until someone beats the Shiiiitttt out of them
2007-01-02 03:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I used to have this problem, until one day the freaks went a lil 2 far, and I beat a bunch of them up, now, everyone likes me, but they still have that fear inside, the fear that keeps them from danger. My middle name, lol.
2007-01-02 03:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself, or ignore them. Yes, I know it sounds lame and over used but I was picked on from both guys and girls. They know not to piss me off, 'cause I'm not afriad to stand up to them. I've even got the strength to take some of them on too. Anyway good luck on your pests.
2007-01-02 03:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Synyster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to ignore them but that doesn't always work anymore and you an retaliate but that doesn't always work either...so I would say just stand up for yourself more and don't let it bother you a mixture of both...those guys are just asswholes
2007-01-02 03:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by First_time_mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pay attention to what people call you dont worry about it pay them no mind just try not to let it get when they see its not getting to you they would stop calling you names
2007-01-02 03:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by action tells it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋