First time we met, she was independant and acted mature and she was sexy. Now that she is pregnant, she acts like a baby and dependant on me. She makes baby sounds and she coos. When she don't get what she wants she stomps her feet and fake cries like an infant. One time she put pigtails and she sucks her thumbs too! And when I was working in our office, she crawled on the floor and tried to sit on my lap. Sometimes I don't know whether to behave like a daddy or to a husband to her. I have to spoil her so she can be happy. I massage her feet, I massage her back, I scratch her back. I cook everything for her. I work cuz she on maternity leave. And she calls me at work. she says she needs to take a nap cuz she can't sleep and she wants me to sing her a song to her, like a Lullaby! WTF?? She been doing this for 4 months.
She also colors in her coloring books and makes me wants me to hang the pictures on the wall.
2007-01-02 02:52:25 · 28 answers · asked by Pedro Xavier Ramirez 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I got tension in my shoulders, my blood pressure is up and I'm still young. I got stress at work (I work 2 jobs) so we can buy a house. I want to be pampered by her too.
2007-01-02 02:53:53 · update #1
Say that you have to go away on a business trip and see how long she can take care of herself? Instead of going away on a business trip, get some R and R at a bed and breakfast place and chill for a couple of days. Recharge your batteries. If your fiancee took care of herself before, then she can take care of herself when you're gone.
2007-01-02 09:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen some women act a little crazy when their pregnant, their whole personality changes, hormones will do that but your fiance sounds a little nuts! If your being totally serious about this than you have to tell her to chill out. I'm pregnant with my second child now and sure i can get hormonal and prolly knock someones head clean off but crawling around on the floor and cooing is a little over the top. Have a sit down with her and let her know she's taking this whole thing too far. I've never heard of a sane person acting this way, who cares if she's pregnant. Everyone i know has had at least on child and i've never seen any of them act as nutty as that! She needs to grow up and remember having a baby is natural and she shouldn't lose her head over it.
2007-01-02 03:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pregnant woman have some crazy emotions, but that just seems ridiculous! Quit giving into her attention seeking and speak up. Tell her shes a grown woman and needs to act her age! Being pregnant is no excuse to act that way!
I don't think it's much for you to ask to be pampered. I helped my husband out and continued to treat him the same way even through my pregnancy. Some woman just take pregnancy to an extreme!
2007-01-02 03:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by monroe1172002 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I read your post and started laughing. Sorry. This is NOT normal. It is one thing to be cranky and bitchy during pregnancy. However, to take on the full mentality of a toddler/baby is a bit much.
It is great that you pamper her, however when ever you start to resent her demands then that's a problem.
Her behaving like a child is not normal. Maybe you should bring this up to her doctor at her next prenatial visit. She might have some underlying mental issues that she is unaware of/ or some sort of abnormal hormone fluctuations that's effecting her reasoning ability.
Good luck. And I hope this phase doesn't strain your relationship.
2007-01-02 03:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okay the coloring and thumb sucking is a bit far, but all the rest sounds about right for a pregnant woman. Cooking, cleaning, and massaging are the least you can do. Pregnancy ruins a woman's body. Her hips and back probably hurts constantly. Her emotions are up and down, and there is nothing she can do about it. Although, starting a new life is a wonderful thing, the both of you are about to loose your freedom for the next 18 to 20 years!!! Her boobs will never be the same. Her hips will never be the same. Her emotions may never be the same. Just treat her the best you can.
2007-01-02 03:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You have got to be kidding me. I am assuming this is her first child, and when you are pregnant for the first time it is normal to want to be babied but she is taking it to far. Does she want you to buy her pampers too. You need to man up honey and let her know she got to stop this. Cuz once the baby gets here there is going to be no time for acting stupid like that. You and her need to be enjoying this time together. And her stressing you in no good. You are the provider for the family. Wow she really crawled LOL. Man if it dont work let me talk to her for you LOL.
2007-01-02 02:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I read both your questions and WOW! You need to sit down and talk to your wife. Explain that you love her and you want to help her but you need the woman you feel in love with back. You can not have a normal relationship with a woman who acts like a three year old. How is she going to be a mother when she doesn't want to take care of herself!? Talk to a close friend or family member of hers that could help you & with her issues. oh and this child is yours too so if you HATE the name just tell her. NO! I dislike it and we need to come up with something that we both will love. Good Luck!!!
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2016-11-25 22:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so ridiculous. I feel so bad for you. It sounds like she is taking advantage of her condition. Wait until you have the baby, she'll get a reality check then. It won't be about her anymore. Hang in there, it sounds like you are an excellent mate. Talking to her about it at this point, may be mute, so have a good talk once the baby is born if she doesn't straighten up. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-02 03:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by L80bug 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, that dosen't sound normal. Yes.....mood swings are a very common thing during pregnancy. Acting like a baby shouldn't be any more than wanting to be waited on. I don't understand why she would be crawling and sucking her thumb, etc..... Sounds like she has serious psychological problems to me
2007-01-02 03:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋