I made a New Years resolution to stop talking to my ex. I just can't seem to call the phone company and change my number. That's all it'll take and he'll be out of my life forever. We have no children together, I gave him back all his possessions, there's nothing tying us together. I told him 2 months ago that I didn't want to talk to him & I'm changing my number. He told me I don't have to go through the hassle & he'd stop calling. The longest I've stopped talking to him was for almost 2 weeks. We could never get back together again. He lied to me, I don't trust him. But, when I need someone to talk to, he's always there. I was really sick 3 days ago. He talked to me alot on the phone, but when I asked him to bring me soup, he gave me every excuse why he couldn't come by. Yesterday he called asking to borrow $20 because he spent all his money partying New Years Eve. He couldn't bring me soup when I was too sick to even sit up! That's why I need to get him out of my life.
2007-01-02 02:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I see this almost every day from Daughter(s), its a desire to make it work even when you know it won't and you are still in love with or in love with the idea of this guy. At least theirs no children involved, its a nightmare around here due to that fact of children and you'll never be rid of him if that happens. Don't talk about what your going to do with him, its none of his Damn Business. The fact you have no one but him to talk to is probably a self made BooHoo just to make the excuse to call him. He can't be there for you now??? Its a 2 way street Gal leave him alone and find a guy that will appreciate you for you and except no less, be advised we all tend to fall back into a relation close to or the same as we just got out of, beware
2007-01-02 03:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think there's still something between you two, but maybe not enough to rebuild a relationship on. If he's somebody you can talk to and turn to when you need somebody then stay in contact. Let the past be the past and go from there. Having a friend to turn to is priceless now days. As far as the $20, if you know he'll pay you back, loan it to him, if not, then don't loan him any money. He might very well end up being your best friend, maybe not your boyfriend, over time.
2007-01-02 03:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by katriana30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extremely easily, ( you're actually not likely to love what I say) yet evaluate what she is doing a present day. First, every person is ex's for a reason, Secondly, she has a clean BF. Thirdly, she has met somebody and is shifting on in that relationship. She is probable not desiring you harm, is happy in her new relationship and that is purely that. have repsect for her new existence and get certainly one of your own. as quickly as you detect somebody new...the ex not chatting with you heavily isn't such an argument. sturdy success!
2016-12-15 13:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the guy off, seems like he is holding on to the last thread. If you want to go forward and meet someone new, you need to do this. The fact that you dont have children leaves you free from him in the future.
2007-01-02 02:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even though yall are through deep inside you still have feelings but he is like your best friend too. Cause he is always there for you what u think about that. Let him go, never gonna get bac then say goodbye and go cause your through wit him and moving on so let him go.
2007-01-02 03:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOOCHER!!! Get rid of this moron right away! I got rid of my ex, hehe, he tried to tell people that I was mean to him, then I told him I was gonna have him beat up, and vuala! No more ex.
2007-01-02 03:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u have to make up your mind regarding whether he is 'X' or "Y'. If X is your choice then don't expect him to do things like that... Just stop thinking of him!!!!!!!!
2007-01-02 03:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Richy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Change your number and don't look back. Period.
2007-01-02 03:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋