but i dont want to hurt her bcoz i also love her .. but reason is that my parents are not agree they says that she is 2 years elder than me and not beautiful as i . they said . so now tell me wat to do i said this to a her but she said i dont know anything i just want to marry u. she spends lot of money on me daily i stop her but she dont listen . tell me the correct path ....
2007-01-02 02:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by ANKITA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry her if you love her. There are many cases were ladies are elder to husbands their marriage is very success full, age is no factor that can come in love nor the beauty. Just tell your parents your real intentions & hope they will not object to your marriage.
2007-01-02 15:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First answer these questions:
1. Did you ask your parents before establishing a relationship?
2. Did you even bother about the fact regarding the approval of parents in the relationship before having sex with the girl?
3. Was you equally 'not so beautiful' when you had sex?
4. Would your parents decide as what you should feel and what not?
5. Do you really love her?
When you would sincerely do this, you would come to know about only two possible situations:
a. You were having fun with the poor girl and now when she wants to marry you, you are making lame excuses. A difference of 2 years of age or beauty aspects were known to you even before the involvement or did she hide it? As regards parental opposition, I am tempted to ask, "Do you know your parents?"
b. You love her. If yes, be a man and honour your commitments (at least a girl would not resort to sex, if she does not find a man committed or posing to be committed).
I hope it helps you to decide...(if you really want to)
2007-01-03 02:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not beautiful enough for you, but still good enough to live on her money and having sex with her... but what kind of man are you?? An animal?? You don´t really care a damn for what this girl feels inside!!
Well, anyway, maybe she is better off without you... you seem to be not mature enough to have a serious relationship or marry anybody. You are so selfish, saying that your parents say that she isn´t that beautiful as you.... well, that´s ridiculous... you can find somebody beautiful although others say she ain´t beautiful at all...
You knew she was elder when you met her... but still you started a relationship with her.
2 years is nothing!! Of course you can marry her...
... if you love her... but you just love yourself, I´m sure. Egoist!!
2007-01-03 08:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Marry her. As Sex is a not an appetite of your body. You will hurt the soul of the Girl by cheating her. Your Parents liking does not matter, as you had not asked them before making sex.Her spending of Money shows that she is under fear of being left by you.Kindly do not commit sin. As your physical beauty will vanish with the time but by ditching her at this point will make a dent in your heart and soul which will make you feel guilty forever in your life.
Age difference is just 2 years, it does not matter.Kindly step in the shoes of her before taking any decision. For a Girl doing sex with you means She had trusted on you as a life partner. You will never be happy in life if you ditch her.
Try to think , what will be case if someone ditch your sister or daughter like this....?
Love should prevail over the Sex. Love bonding is forever, while Sex bonding is only for the time being and will vanish in a period of time...
if you really love her then marry her without fail.
2007-01-03 08:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by loving_indian4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry a girl elder to you.
She may enjoy sex with you, for
the time being, but after a few months,
she would not be able to satisfy your
sexual needs, as the elder gilrs'
sex apetite may soon get exhausted.
It is very common in the world. Such
marriages end up violently, by divorce.
She may be sexually pervert as she could
find, no one till date, who would look
at her for sex.
Since, she has found you, she will do
everything to retain you.
Stop visiting her. Take a job outside.
Tell her frankly that you are unable to
continue. If she throughs money, she can
get any other person.
I feel pity for her. If she was younger to
you, you could have married.
If you marry her, 2 lives would be
destroyed after a fwe months. Both
of you will repent for ever. And it will
be too late.
2007-01-02 14:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking your parents for relationship advice I say you are a little too young for marriage. Of course that doesn't mean break up. First find your own career path and become a stronger person. Remember the strong each of you are the stronger couple you will be.
2007-01-02 12:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never should avoide her in any sutiation, coz she belived in you too much and have given herself to you. How could you avoide such a person? Make your parents understand you and get married to her.
Think if you being a girl and you do the same as her and if your partner left you saying this?How could you feel?
2007-01-03 19:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didn't u realize she is not beautiful while having sex??u have sex daily???then ther is no quetion of leaving her.so what if she is elder?u should have thought about age and parents before entering in to a relationship.u have no right whatsoever to leave her.u r asking such questions,,,,,,,, do u love her really???u shouldn't leave her.
2007-01-03 04:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend,
one thing i really wanna ask ...do you really love her at all??if you do you probably wont be asking these questions.you cant jus dump a girl only because she is not beautiful and and not acceptable by your parents.you should have thought about it before commiting to her.now first ask yourself this question if you do really love her have the guts to accept her or dont show your face to her again.
dont eat on her money.i hope you come to a solution soon.
2007-01-02 11:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by divs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you have sex with her daily,during that time did you ask your parents whether to proceed or not, didnt you know that she was not beautiful, she is older tha you. all what you say is lame excuses. you have been bored with her, you want a beautiful girl with lots of money. if i see you i will i dont know what i will do to you....
2007-01-02 15:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋