2007-01-02 02:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by somethingsomething 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You didn't really include enough details pertaining to your troubled relationship. I don't think your wife hates you; She is probably just really angry at you for something you did or didn't do. I get angry at my husband occasionally and he knows it. He just gives me space and avoids me until I am cooled down enough to at least converse with. Do the same and just give her space. Stay out of her way. You'll know when she is cooled and then confront her nicely. Bring home a single red rose which means "I love You." My husband does this and it washes away turmoil.
2007-01-02 02:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go while you can i was in the same situation until july when my wife decided she had enough.Im not abusive not an alcoholic or drug user a good father to my son and have always handled finances without any problems.Lots of women are just plain nuts and they get bored of what they have.I blame it all on soap operas dr phil and those damn harlequin romance novels where they end up with the pool boy.LOL.
My greiving period is already done and im ready to move on after being married 9 years and having known my wife for over 20 years.
2007-01-02 11:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by butchdalton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that the opposite of Love is not Hate , it is apathy. I know, I have also hated my husband, but that did not mean I did not love him. You definitely need to find out why she is in "hate" with you and then evaluate your marriage and find out if you want to try and regain your marriage back. It takes time and alot of work, but if your relationship is important to you both it will be worth the journey. Good luck !
2007-01-02 11:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by foruipurr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you better of with her or without her? Absence makes the heart grow fonder or colder (out of sight ,out of mind).Do you need to take a break- go to a retreat or somewhere to think it out?
Do you believe that love covers a multitude of faults? You know the details. Sleep on it a little longer and your mind will give you the answer. In the end, you will need to make the final choice anyhow.
2007-01-02 10:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Aoiffe337 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to be somewhere where your unwanted. Maybe you should take a trial separation, and see how you both feel after being apart. The longer you stay, knowing your unwanted, the more you will get physically sick because of your mental state. Take care of yourself.
2007-01-02 11:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved your wife, you'd do whatever it took to make her happy. You'd put her first. By saying that you are "unable", means that you are selfish - and putting your needs first. That isn't LOVE. If you truly loved her - you would set her free.
2007-01-02 10:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out what resentment she is holding against u, find out why she is hurt, ask for forgiveness even if u don't feel responsible. if u love her than u should be willing to do anything to regain her love. most times it involves bitterness over some unresolved matter. asking for her forgiveness covers alot of sins, and causes the other one to rethink the situation.
2007-01-02 10:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats quite the dillema my friend, you are going to have to grow a pair and leave her, its a two way street, move on find something young and new and be happy.
2007-01-02 10:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem like to me she doesn't hate you as much as you think, i think she is just mad at you right now because if she hated you then she'll be trying to leave you and not you wanting to leave her. anyone that hates you don't wanna be involved with you and their defintely are not going to stay with you, so she doesn't hate you she just mad, try sennding her flowers everyday or doing littlle romantic things to show her that your sorry for whatever it is that you have done
2007-01-02 10:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel,been there,done that. I would suggest that you seek counseling to help you find out why you would want to stay in a loveless marriage. good luck
2007-01-02 10:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by sandyt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋