other tips you could give, coz it is kinda struggling for me... and sometimes ur not genuinely interested but u have to...and humor..are there any other things?
2007-01-02 02:38:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I neva hav anything 2 say. when i do its just a comment on what my friend is saying, its usu sally blunt, so it makes her laugh a lot. There is no particular subject to talk about, you could talk about, what happened 2 u yesterday, or ask someone if they did the thing they planned to. If you have anything 2 say then say it. (as long as it won't hurt someones feelings) if theya re asking you honest opinion , give it to them. Just be yourself. And don't list all the things you should say in your head, because then it won't sound natural. Good Luck.
2007-01-02 02:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by taxi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read. There are interesting things in magazines, newspapers and books. Most people are boring to talk with, because they have nothing interesting to say.
Example: Did you hear about the blizzard in Colorado, Nebraska and Kansas? To keep from losing cattle helicopters are dropping hay into them. Sometimes the only way they can find the cattle or the stranded motorist is by cameras that detect body heat. But the good thing is when the snow melts the long drought will be over because these areas have been needing water.
This is an adult response. If you are a teenager, the same applies just bring it down a notch. Did you see that guy/girl in
5th period Chemistry? I just heard the song -----------. Have you heard it yet? Teenagers have these things like "scratch" meaning someone just acted dumb. Watch for signs of these so you'll know what's going on with your age group. Be alert.
2007-01-02 10:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are struggling to be more outgoing, as it sounds like you may be, the best thing to do is to do your homework before you meet new people to start conversations by brushing up on current events and pop culture by reading a variety of magazines.
Armed with that knowledge, hopefully you have found a few topics among those magazines that interest you and you have developed an opinion on you can get them to open up more by asking their opinion about that topic. If you throw out a few topics and they don't bite or go off an a tangent that you find overly boring, like details on how they lowered the '95 Mustang so they could get that extra 5 miles an hour drag racing, ask probing questions about what they do for a living, what they do in their spare time, what sort of hobbies they have.
2007-01-02 10:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is ever boring, when you meet some one it should come naturally. just make sure you dont ask too many questions. no one likes a chatter box.
why dont you start with a question like this:
hello, do you sleep on your chest... mind if i do??
2007-01-02 10:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anyone is boring, and if people think that you're boring, well, then they are not really your type of friend! Just be yourself, who cares what people think?
2007-01-02 15:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋