I want to live in the sun, i have gained citizenship and passport for this country.?

Question

The problem is that i have an arranged mariage to a person from this country and i don't really want to move with her because i cant stand her son he is a user and very lazy . I have three kids not with her and one born 3mths ago to another woman i used protection but it failled she only wants money all the time and is very rude to me. i have paid for baby items which i enjoyed doing and given her money . My wife has the money to start the ball rolling i dont have enough money to start up. I have my own home but dont want to sell if it all goes wrong ill need to come back or if i rent it and remortage the rent will not be leave me with much cash after making the repayments. what can i do this problem is distroying me as i dont want to leave my kids but i can always come back or pay for them to visit me.. i need to do this as i want to live in peace.

Answer 1

So you just want to marry this woman because she has money? And you stated that you have a wife, too? And you cheated on her and had a kid by accident? Instead of running away, you need to deal with the problems that YOU created for yourself. You'll probably have to pay child support for the next 18 years and you can't get out of that, no matter what. But I can't say that I blame her, either. If you keep your home, you'll probably lose it in a nasty divorce case or from paying so much child support, so I would just sell it and get something smaller and less expensive. Much less expensive so that it's paid off and in your name only. As for the peace, no matter where you go, it won't be peaceful. As a matter of fact, you'll have the authorities call you if they know you "ran away", and you'll definately have the lady with the baby chasing you down for money. Sorry about your luck, dude.