2007-01-02 00:58:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, yes, yes and yes.
You married the man. If they don't accept him, 'divorce' them.
2007-01-02 01:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by MithrilHawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, are the long term friends? You can still associate with your friends but not as much. As long as you love your husband, and won't be influence by their negative feedback you are fine. Differently do not have them at your house ever, keep visit with them maybe twice a month for lunch or something like that. In the end if they see that he is good for you, they will change their tune. I have been married for 20 years to mine.
2007-01-02 09:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put some space between you and your friends for a while. If they are real friends then they will see you are happy and come around to your way of thinking even if they don't like your hubby for whatever reason then they will be happy that you are happy. If they don't then make new friends who know you as a married person and accept you and your husband as a package.
2007-01-02 09:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rocking in the same boat. Just don't tell them things pertaining to your marriage. Friends can't be objective because they will never think anyone is good enough for you. Also don't turn a blind eye on the husband.
2007-01-02 09:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats how they want it to be. Tell them that if they dont support your marriage then they can just stay out of your life. If they were true friends they would support YOU!!! And they would want you to be happy! Why do they not support you marriage, somthing he has done?, or are they just being selfish friends that want you all to their selves!!! If they are being selfish i say they need to grow up!
2007-01-02 09:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marriage and your husband are important to you, then I wouldn't hang out with people who don't support you. True friends should stand by you and your decisions, unless they fear for you or your safety. If they just don't like him then I would not consider them true friends.
2007-01-02 09:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rememeber you are married to your husband not your friends . Tell your friends one at a time to let you handle your marrage , if they respect you , then they are a freind if not then they are not . THe only way I would listen to my friends is if my husband was hitting on me are messing around on me with another women , cauce if I was your friend I would worry about you to.
2007-01-02 09:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends will support you no matter what. only thing I have a concern about would be if you decide to stay in an abusive relationship and your family and friends don't agree with it.
2007-01-02 09:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your real friends will support your decision although they might not agree with you
I would not associate with them
2007-01-02 09:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because your real friends will support you thru anything. even if they dont agree they will give you there advice and then still support you thru your decision.
2007-01-02 09:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋