Friends with bene's. Been there on the marriage thing, and it hurts so much when it falls apart. Do the friends with benefits and see if it grows into something more. You never know. If you find the person that's perfect for you, hang on. Sorry, had to answer this one before work just in case it's closed before I get home tonight.
2007-01-02 01:48:27
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answered by Dorkboy 7
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Marriage is the best way to ruin a completely good friendship. You'll get sick and tired of your partner sooner or later, and wish to be free. MArriage makes that a bit more difficult to get out of.
Friends with benefits always keeps the "it could end soon so I better keep the flame going" mentailty. Marriage is like a learned helplessness. Like communism - no incentive to go above and beyond because you're committed to the long-term and you already have all the rewards you're ever going to get.
2007-01-02 08:53:52
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answered by yuntaa_dba 4
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Done the friends with benefits thing and the marriage thing too and I prefer the marriage thing.I am single at this time and I'm scared with my FwB partners because who else do they or I have the same arrangment with.Find a true friend in your venture to marriage and that way you both will enjoy each other more.
2007-01-02 09:21:39
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answered by harleyman 3
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Marriage - and I am, happily married married just over a year now. I've done the friends with benefits routine several times and it's very disappointing.
2007-01-02 08:46:32
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answered by Rachel 7
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Marriage? What's that word? Does that even exist anymore??
I'm so confused..
2007-01-02 08:57:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Marry friends with benefits!! I've a point...
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2007-01-02 08:50:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Marriage I hope.
2007-01-02 08:51:45
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answered by Meeya 7
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Bad experience? maybe? Marriage for me, but I can see where the other is good too.
2007-01-02 08:47:10
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answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7
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Definitely marriage.IT takes both parties to make it work.Nobody wants a divorce and save ur chastity for ur future wife/husband!
2007-01-02 08:46:49
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answered by momma 2
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I only have a friend w/ benefits right now and it works for me !
2007-01-02 09:24:24
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answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7
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