Well..I just realized I like girls last year...Before that I've always fell in love with guys...As in emotionally...But never really liked their "thingies"...I never gave it much thought actually...
But now I'm dating this amazing girl...And I just think males are gross as in dating them...But sometimes I go like...Then how the hell did I like them before?!
I'M SO CONFUSED PPL! So am I a lesbian or not?! Am I lying to myself?!
Please clue me in! Thanks...♥ ♥
2007-01-01 23:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by Hanan♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm afraid only you can know the answer to that, nobody can tell you whether you're a lesbian or not.. but just be comfortable with yourself either way! If you're happy with this girl then just focus on that and not trying to define what you are.
2007-01-02 00:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Error Child 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm... I'd say you're bisexual. Nothing wrong with that.
Maybe you did the straight thing back then, and never really liked guys sexually. You were just in it for the relationship aspect. Your friends were dating guys, so you did too. Maybe you're now coming to terms that you're les. If you feel there's no way in god's creation you're going back to guys, and guys are just gross and have cooties (lol) then I'd definately say you're Lesbian. If you feel one day eventually you'd like to be married to a guy, have kids, and live happily ever after, then consider yourself bi.
Life takes some strange turns sometimes... Go with the flow, and don't worry about which way the river flows. Just make sure you have your life jacket on and enjoy the ride with whoever you're with!!!
;o)
2007-01-02 10:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sweets 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state your age, which is very important in analyzing your situation. If you are still in your teens, you hormones are sill roaring strong. If you are atleast in your mid 20's then generally hormones would be less of an issue.
It is common for people to be curious and feel a need to get close to someone of the same sex at some point in their lives. This can be due to several reasons. The important thing though, is to listen to your body. It will tell you which way to go.
Just because you travel down one road or the other does not mean you can not hop back onto the other road at some point in your life.
Please remember this, do not try to be what others want you to be. Be yourself and live your life for you :)
2007-01-02 08:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might have been born gay. And in the past you must have just gone with the flow - girls dating guys and all that. I don't really consider myself born gay, but since I was a kid I was attracted to guys rather than girls.
But in your case you might be bi (considering that you 'fell in love' with guys). But people alter, you might have just turned out of men. No one really knows how all these things work out.
But don't really worry about your orientation just now. You know you like girls in general - not just this amazing girl. So do what brings you happiness. In due time you'll find out if you are really bisexual or gay.
2007-01-02 11:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart. It seems to be saying you're lesbian at the moment.
2007-01-02 16:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try both and figure out what you like best.....that's what I did!!! :)
2007-01-02 09:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by CURVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your bisexual!!!
CONGRATS!!!
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2007-01-02 08:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋