Why do people meddle in other peoples lives, especially women.?

Question

Two women where I work at decided that they knew whats best for and decided to start interfering in my personal life. The two women didn't know a damn thing about me. The one of the women who knew me best wasn't even positive if I was straight or not. They kept getting involved and telling me I was doing things wrong in my personal. Even thought they had no clue what was going on in my personal life. I told them I didn't like them meddleing, we got into arguments, I would get physically upset and leave the room were they where at. Finally another woman I went through the same thing with told them that I didn't like people meddleing in my life. Then one of the women came to me asking me if they did anything wrong. This was after a few months of me telling them I don't like and getting upset with them. And after they pretty much destroyed what was going on in my personal life.
Why do people expcially women think they have the answers to everything?

Yes men do it to, but it would be more expectble for me to tell another guy to but the f***king hell out. I always kept my personal life personal. That is why the one woman didn't know if I was even straight or not. The managers at work are useless. They got involed because their was a woman at work I was talkign to and we had some chemistry. I found out she was living with her physcial and emotional abusive boyfriend. Since she told me that the relationship was going really bad and was slowly disolving. I decided to just let the relationship run out of steam before I got involved. I didn't want to make it any worse then it was. But the two women decided to get involved on their own. I ask or talk to them about this. Their so called help was unwated and un asked for.

Answer 1

I know what you mean. They do it to me at work in my office sometimes. They can't help it. You don't have to follow their advice but it's a female thing and we just have to humour them. I think they are trying to help. Sometimes their advice is good. Women love to advise on relationships. They want people to be happy.

Answer 2

i dont think all woman are the same, but just to give you a bit of an answer or whould i say an explenation. Most woman have bad relationships and sometimes things go badly wrong because men use them their sensitive and their not really shure if they should trust their partners. woman are not like men saying o f#$%^^ that guy if he want to make a mistake let him do it. no ways their much loving and kind they look after their friends and if something goes wrong with them they dont want anyting bad to happen to their friend and they will do anything to do that. BUT THIS IS NOT WRIGHT!!!! I say there is a time for everything this is just something that woman should try and get rid off. Mind your own business thats what I say

Answer 3

Perhaps you should think twice before discussing personal matters at work, the two should really be kept separate. I'm sure they were only trying to help but it sounds like they went over the top. You really can't brandish all women with that stereotype just because two women did it to you. Personally, I would never meddle in somebody's life, simply because I wouldn't like it if someone did it to me.

Answer 4

First of all I'd like to say that the person named 'Rocky' who
answered this is question is an a.s.s *** (you know what), and secondly, not all women like medling into ppl's lives, they just do it because they think they are helping (although sometimes un-invitedly).
The women at your workplace may think they can help change you situation for the better that's why the meddle... even though they're probably worsening the problem.

Answer 5

If it makes you feel any better, I am a woman, and I can't stand it when people get into my personal life either. And I certainly don't think I have the answers to everything, so it's not all women. But I know what you mean.

Answer 6

I don't really get your story,but there's no way these people just picked you to mess with so you must have some how some way allowed them in.and now you blame them for the upset of your relationship when they could not have gotten in if the door way to your business hadn't been inviting.what ever went wrong in your relationship had to do with you and the person involved,no one and i mean no one can destroy your life unless you allow it to happen, wise up.

Answer 7

its not just women honey its men too, i work around alot of men and youed think the way they talk that it was a sewing circle with a mess of old ladies. some of these guys are really bad. i just think that its people. i've had people stop!!! on the highway to look at a accident, men and women. if you mine your own business you'll live longer is what i say. good luck kiddo

Answer 8

Hmmm... possibly she became the case manager, and if so, the question became directed at her!!! basically kidding... that's not effective for human beings to be propose in any section, regardless of the indisputable fact that it really is exceptionally contradictory at the same time as it takes position interior the etiquette section. Makes you type of ask your self about the usual of the responses...

Answer 9

it's not just women and how can you blame them for destroying your personal life.....if you didn't want them to meddle then why did you listen to them....obviously, you told them what was happening in your personal life, otherwise they wouldn't have know there was a problem and couldn't have given you advice....so stop telling people about your life and you won't have to worry...good luck

Answer 10

Because they have nothing better to do.
They also think if they run your life, they will not have to deal with their own.
Avoid them at all costs.
Better yet, tell them when they can prove their lives are perfect, they can interfere in yours.
Good Luck.