he says he has not forgotten me, ends his mails with : all mylove
but still does not want to hurt his wife, though he argues and always did, says he wants to give ma a personnal adress to mail him, but waits one month to do
does he still have feelings for me ???
2007-01-01 22:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by cathormenpa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, he has feelings for you. If you continue the relationship, get comfortable with the fact that you'll never be able to depend on him for support when you need it--it's always when he has time and needs. It won't be a two-way, mutually supportive relationship. You deserve better, you know, right?
2007-01-01 22:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he still has feelings for you. It's possible that he doesn't want to hurt his wife. It's possible that he wants out, but the fight it would take to get out or it could be that he has kids and stays for them.
That being said, if he really wants to spend time with you, he will find a way. The whole in one month thing is curious to me. In my observation of life, when a man really wants a woman, he'll always find a way to spend time with her. IF it's a long distance thing, he'd get a post office box..... now.
For the bigger picture, I'd be careful with your own heart. It may end up very broken. Statistically speaking, when extramarital affairs and the people having them end their marriages to be together or married themselves, the new marriages only work out about 5% of the time. The other 95% of the time, reality is much different than the fantasy the affair truly is. I'd say you both have some decision making to do.
2007-01-02 06:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Crash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing a game. He likes the attention from you, so he keeps you on a string. He gives you something to hang on to, and then waits a month so you'll still be hanging on.
If he really meant "all my love", he would be with you, giving you all of his love. But since he cares about his wife and is with her, he can't give you his whole heart.
He may care about you or have some sort of feelings for you. But it is obvious that he will not be with you any time soon. It's easier said than done, but move on. Like people say, if it's meant to be it will happen. Don't put your life on hold waiting a month for an email.
2007-01-02 06:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on what his mind is on at the time when he said all of these things to you....I also when I write I end it all my love because it is what I feel for that person, perhaps this person does love you, but you have to understand that this person is also married and have another life outside of yours, he has to do what he has to do with that situation....And sorry to say you are not in the picture at the present time...I am not trying to hurt your feelings or make you angry by my comment but you have to face facts on this one he has a wife, and you are just simply a person to pass time with, and that is the truth and if he does love you like he says then he will come back but if he does not then he didn't love you in the first place....My advice just wait and see what happens and if things don't change then you know what you have to do..It is just that simple.
2007-01-02 07:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must still have feelings for u, but he does have a wife, and he doesn't want to hurt her, and neither should u. best to avoid this, can only hurt u and bring u grief. what is it u expect to gain from him? would u really be happy if he left her, knowing the grief it would cause her. there are people who come into our lives, that for some reason we will remember always. but if they are married to someone else, would we really want to be the reason they left their wife, for us? would we want that on our conscience. would we want a relationship that came about at the expense of another's unhappiness?
2007-01-02 07:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie he never did. He's MARRIED!!!! You're the other woman, the one to be hidden in the background. Move on and get a real relationship.
2007-01-02 07:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wasting your time and bringing yourself to be cast as a home wrecker. Think of it this way..even if he left his wife for you..you would always be worried he does the same thing to you.
2007-01-02 07:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is confused, sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. It has been my experience the wife is usually the one with him in the end.
2007-01-02 06:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by smooches986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him - he is amarried man find someone else. If he had feelings for you he would be with you and not his wife!!
2007-01-02 06:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only feelings he has for you are in his pants.
2007-01-02 07:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋