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and yet he still insists on wearing nylon y-fronts and tight brown cords.As if that wasn`t bad enough he`s put on quite alot of weight and insists on wearing my bra when he goes morris dancing.I feel like the laughing stock of my village and he just doesn`t understand how much his dress sense upsets me.Should i leave him?I mean you wouldn`t wear a pair of shoes if they didn`t match your outfit so why should i walk around with someone that looks so hideous?

2007-01-01 22:29:06 · 27 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

27 answers

i really can't see the problem with his dress sense or his hobby.
and what self respecting man does not have nylon y's(paisley or purple). be supportive(no pun intended) of his hobby and buy him a sports bra

2007-01-01 22:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 3 0

Well for some reason you were attracted to him, Y fronts and all and yet now you want to change him. You should never enter a relationship where you want to change the other person. You are taking away that part of him that is his alone. On the other hand, I wouldn't go out with him. If you are still in love with him, then talk to him, gently. Tell him you think he should have a change in wardrobe and take him shopping. Pick out something you think looks good on him and ask him to wear it on your next date. When people start complimenting him on his new clothes... he'll stick to them.

But if you do not love him anymore, let him down quick before you hurt him any deeper.

2007-01-02 06:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by daixyflexi 3 · 0 0

just tell him, HEY I WANT TO BE ALONE FOR SOME TIME, I THINK YOU DESERVE BETTER...LETS JUST BREAK UP, AND WHEN WE SEE EACH OTHER ON THE STREETS LETS JUST PASS EACH OTHER. ... the answer is you have a compelling need to understand because you are full of love and your love that you have within you is what has you confused thinking he loves you. cause if he did love you he would not embarrase you like this. you should think about it this way, do you want to get pregant and have his children and then the children are made fun of by other children because of their father, The answer is no. use your best judgement. leave now while he is happy and let him have his fun. don;t give in again and change your phone number , dont open the door and stay away from him.....

2007-01-02 06:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0 0

nylon y-frnts ..tight brwn cords...uhmm not exactly a nice picture..
-Ask yourself this question...
+What made you fall for him in the 1st place?
+Why you gave him chance after chance?

-My answers to those questions
+ You gave him chance coz' u love the dude.
+ Attire doesnt matter..Its the heart..the person they are.
+ But ofcoz if you cant stand being seen in public with him dressed like a freak you should let him know that you mean what you said bout his sense of "fashion:"( frankly i cant tolerate for too long if my bf was like that)
+ Last but not least.. if all the efforts you put doesnt work..like most of them said..Its time to let it go.Tolerance has its limits.

2007-01-02 07:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Curiousity 1 · 0 0

I suppose he at least has the decency to try and stop his man boobs from embarrassing you, by wearing your bra. Tight brown cords? Hmmm, your bloke sounds like my old science teacher, surely no two people would wear trousers so hideous? Is his name Mr Kilby? He sounds like he is trapped in the 70's, although its a shame he didn't stay there really. Get rid of him girl. Nobody needs someone like that cramping their style!

2007-01-02 06:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 3 1

If you can't beat 'em, join 'em! Ask him to take you shopping for summat just as bad as he wears, and go morris dancing with him! Can I suggest a red catsuit and some purple cowboy boots! You gave me a right laugh, cheers!

2007-01-02 06:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 2 0

Discuss it with him first and give him time to change.But if his style is really deeply rooted to his system,his family like that and or since he was a child he dresses like that and strongly believes that's the only way to do it or live life,then leave him with no regrets.

2007-01-02 06:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0 1

Poor fat bastard. He probly gets his sense of style from you, so help him help you. Shave your mustache, trim up the pubes a little maybe try brushing your teeth everyonce in a while and for gods sake, wipe your ***. Maybe he will learn from watching. Best of luck to you.

2007-01-02 06:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 2 0

If you don't find him attractive you need to break up with him and move on.
Don't stay in a realtionship that doesn't make you happy.
If they aren't up to scratch, you leave 'em - don't take any rubbish from them.
I am now a lesbian - I hate men :-/
Come to think of it, I'm pretty annoyed with women too. I'll become a nun! At least I've still got my vodka :)

2007-01-02 06:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

If you love him you will stay with him...If you dont love him then dont put up with this behaviour. If he isnt willing to change then he cant truly love you, for if he did he would alter his ways or at least come to some compromise.

2007-01-02 06:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0 1

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