I have a boyfriend...and before me and him got together, me and this girl was more than friends...We were always together. And now I have a boyfriend....and I love him. He was a good friend at first and we decided to go out. Now I dont know what to do. Since me and him have been together...Ive kissed her...But didnt tell anyone because I wantt to be with him but her at the same time.
2007-01-01 22:06:08 · 7 answers · asked by dougownsmyface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him what he expects from you in your relationship. Does he expect you to be only with him or is he willing to share? Are you willing to let him see other people? These are questions that you need to ask yourself. Once you get the answers, base your decision on them. If he is looking for a monogomous relationship, then you need to break up with him. Your not ready for it. It isn´t fair to keep him in the illusion that your willing to be faithful if your not. Talk to your partner and see what he wants. Your focus shouldn´t be on me me me, if you love him it should be on what you can do to meet his needs. That´s a true sign that you love him.
2007-01-01 22:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get with the guy? Does it feel nice to know that you can secretly have both? What should you do - simple - dump the boyfriend and be with your friend or just be her friend and stay with your boyfriend. Either way you are just a player and personally I think you deserve neither if you loved him you wouldn't have cheated on him
2007-01-01 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have absolutely no idea what's going on in your life!!! You have a boyfriend..... BUT you "and this girl was more than friends.... AND now you have a boyfriend and you love him? BUT you've kissed the girlfriend??? What the heck are we supposed to tell you to do? You want to be bi, then be bi. As long as I don't have to see it. Oh yeah, it's wrong! And I think that you know it, or you wouldn't be asking.
2007-01-01 22:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused that r u a girl or a boy. if u r a boy n Ur dating a boy(that means u r gay) leave him and start dating the girl n if u r a girl n u have a boyfriend n u have kissed the girl( Ur a lesbian in the making) don't leave e Ur boyfriend.
2007-01-01 22:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But didnt tell anyone because I wantt to be with him but her at the same time..........
GO FOR IT IT'S FUN
2007-01-01 22:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend and you love him as you say, I would stick with him. Otherwise, if you continue playing around, you may lose him.
Good luck!
2007-01-01 22:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Peekie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you best stay with the one you are dating
2007-01-01 22:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋