If for some reason the trust is gone and you really dont believe just about anything they tell you, does this always mean you cant possibly love them anymore, or is it possible not to trust someone and still love them?
2007-01-01 21:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you can defiantly love them.However after 18 years of marriage I have found and share with my own daughters who are 18 and 21 that without trust there is no relationship.You cannot be in a worthwhile relationship without trust.It will not work and you will always doubt what is said or done.My husband can say I am going out for a few hours and I can say okay see you later.No questions asked...I believe in him and yrust him.If you cant do that..throw in the towel and move on.Your heart will hurt for a little but the pain from wondering if they are cheating or where they say will eat you alive.
2007-01-01 21:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by karen e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big thing. But of course you can still love the person you dont trust. Of course you have to ask yourself why you dont trust that person anymore. But if there is the chance that some of yours doubs may just be in your head, than to think more positive about that person helps to regain and strengthen your love for that person.
2007-01-01 21:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Skiru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still love a person, even if you don't trust them however, if you're talking relationship wise then you have to wonder if its really worth sticking with it. Sometimes trust can be earned back but it really depends on the circumstances as to why there is no trust to begin with.
2007-01-01 21:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by OziGirl_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly, you can love and not trust. and it hurts none the less. i find it hard to try and learn to try and build trust back up after i had been so betrayed. i'm hope you don't feel the same way. if you do, then i'm sorry.
its a new year. let us both start off anew and on a different outlook on life. :)
2007-01-01 21:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by mellisa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love without trusting but that type of love with time will wither.
2007-01-01 21:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thtz the thing with human beings..u can love even when ur heart is breaking...
2007-01-01 21:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋