why do straght guys touch on gay guys, and try to sweet talk them to going some where with them so they can hurt them.
2007-01-01 21:19:00 · 19 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well first it is kinda wrong to make such a blanket statement condemning all Straight guys.
Yes there are a number of extremely homophobic and sadistic individuals who commit crimes against gays for various reasons.
However I have straight friends who are not comfortable with Homosexuality, but they would never hurt some one because of their sexuality.
I suppose one of the other major reasons why some guys may specifically target gay men would be the fact that many Gay men won't report crimes because they are embarrassed or are too afraid. Just recently there was a couple who were attacked out side a restaurant in Phoenix, the only reason they made the papers was because they reported the crime. It was such a rare event it made the front page.
Maybe if people started defending themselves, reporting the crimes and working together to catch the scum then things like that will become the rare occurrence.
2007-01-01 22:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Stone K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, not all straight guys hate guys or are jerks. Now to the jerks, why are people jerks in the 1st place?!? if you can answer that question then you'll be able to figure out why anyone would hurt anyone. People fear what they don't understand. Some people try to understand what they don't know so that they won't fear it any more. Some people just stay away. Then there are those who destroy that which they can't figure out.
Some guys define themselves by what they are not. Then they see someone who is gay and they have issues because they cannot define themselves anymore. Rather than redefining them selves, they lash out at that which confronts them.
I'm not here to justify it the rational, just to try to asses it. when you understand the ignorance, you have a better chance of defeating it. Those people don't respect gay people. Until they learn that they are indeed hurting a person, then they feel justified in their actions. It's like hurting a fly..it's OK because it's not a person. they see homosexuals in the same twisted light. You may never reach the generation with such beliefs, but you might reach the next generation!
2007-01-01 22:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They Have Been Led To Believe It's The Worst Thing A Human Could Ever Be! So To Act All Anti Gay Is Just There Nature Due To Brain Washing Over A Period Of Time. And The Bible Is 100% Against It!!!
2007-01-01 21:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would like to put that in this way.I'm a straight guy and i used to hate gay guys when i was around 15 and 16 until i became 18..During that time i really hated them maybe the gay dudes i knew those days were real crazy sick jerks.Maybe they gave me a bad impression.True its male dominance and really didnt find any reason to justify gay dudes(even bisexuals) and i cudn stand them.
As time elapsed things changed.I started reading a lot about homosexuality in to the depth and started 2 understand what really it is and its not an illness.coz when i turned 18 during that period i met a few gays, bi guys and even bi women.I found out them to be really normal just like you and I but the only difference is their emotional and sexual attraction towards same sex fellas.
Now I dont hate them infact i associate them and try my best to solve their problems they have to face in the society.
What I've got to tell to all the straight guys who hate gays like i used to is that treat them equally coz they are normal and dont be prejudicedsince they have nothing to do with their sexuality and its how they were born!Be modest!
Remember that we straight guys cannot be called straights unless gays and bi's exist.A world full of straights will be monotonous and no variety.Tryto understand homos!
2007-01-01 21:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by SOAD_ROX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the straight guys who act like that are simply insecure. And it's stupid. I'm not homosexual or bi but I'm seriously annoyed and bothered when I see or hear anyone ignorant, shallow and insecure enough to start talking a gay down.
So if you're referring to yourself as the gay in this question's scenario, I hope you don't have to struggle with those poles-up-their-arses jerks. Always know that you're above them, always.
2007-01-01 21:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Silence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're sick jerks who get their jollys from hurting others. Gay, straight...they're simply bullies. Bullies usually start off that way because they're afraid of the unknown and don't know a positive way of working out that frustration and fear. So, instead they resort to violence and hate. It just shows how limited their reasoning abilities actually are. Pitiful if you think about it.
2007-01-01 21:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is called male dominance. I have nothing against a gay dude. it is your choice but wrong to me. I would never try and change you. you made your decision. I would think twice about going anywhere with one I just met. This will keep you safe and out of harms way. go out with a friend, A wingman/girl it may not be your mate but it will be one to stay with and be safe in rude places.
2007-01-01 21:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by fourwheeln05 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Straight guys that tease gays most likely it is because they are insecure about their own sexuality.
Straight guys that want to "harm" gays are usually "latent" homosexuals and have never accepted this fact about themselves. Those type can be dangerous....
2007-01-01 21:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because theyz be awful people.Not all straight men do this you know. Not saying it's right,but well the ones that do are homophobic horrible creatures and well to ask this is, is to ask for a very obvious answer.
2007-01-01 21:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by jack20m2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are homophobes and want to "teach" the gays a lesson in what it takes to be a man.
2007-01-01 21:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by mortgagegirl101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋