ive been to online web dateing places,no man ever responded to my adds,ive tried blind dates an im fed up,im tired of the single life seems like men only want ladies who have been married and divorced 20 times with 10 kids why are men so scared of a ladies who has never been married or had kids,so what advice do you give a retired woman who has lupus thats a form of athritis,on how to meet a good man
2007-01-01 21:05:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmm, time to get 40 cats and move to a farm. lolol I'm kidding. But it's possible that you're looking for the wrong guys. Guys that just aren't your type. You have to change things up a bit. Make yourself a little more available. You're just not putting yourself out there enough. Now, I'm not telling you to be easy or anything. Just let people know that you're interested in them, or you're interested in being in a relationship.
2007-01-01 21:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a lot of things. Men are funny most guys like a nice looking woman. They don't want to get to know you if you are not.If you are caring, sweet and take care of yourself you will meet some one. Remember you have what guys want.I look for sweet and caring first and looks are down on my list. You have to change the way you meet guys.No men don't want women who have been married 20 times this only tells them that their is some thing wrong with that person.What do you say in your adds? You might be scaring the men off? Dating service only work for some people most of the time those men are just looking for easy sex. They think if a women goes to one of them she is desperate. Also I see you don't allow E mails change that and maybe you will get some responses. I wanted to talk to you I cant. Start changing some of the things you are doing because as you see they are not working.
2007-01-01 21:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a cute story to cheer you up.
There's a lady that I know at church who met and married the love of her life at age 45. She had never been married before, never had kids, and thought her time was way past. He was a widow, over 10 years older than her, but they were an absolutely wonderful couple. He recently passed away, but they had many years of wonderful married bliss, and you can tell by the way that she still talks about him that he was her favorite person in the whole world.
May that be some inspiration for you... you never know when you'll find the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life. Good luck!
2007-01-01 21:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probly. honey. I presume you've been to bed with plenty of men however. My take is you have severe difficulty COMMUNICATING properly with men. Further, I can tell you fail miserably at LISTENING to a man. Now that you've honed this art for 20 yrs or more, you're a cinch to be a Old Maid. Don;t worry though babe ; you have plenty of company. You're from an era of broads who are all worried about what they want instead of what a man wants. And plenty of men were sucker enough to fall for that too. you just never found the fool. Nature has a way of sorting out some of you females. Get serious. you should have begun to concern yourself 15 yrs ago. you'll get over it dear....
2007-01-01 22:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have such a nice nick name but...
To be honest you sound so desperate...as if for women the only purpose in this world is to get a man.
We men do not approach desperate ladies. Do not show that you need a man. Live your life nice and easy. The man will come after you. I guarantee it...
Do not act like those loser web-daters...you must rebel lady...ok?
2007-01-01 22:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by josh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no im sure its just that you havent found the right man you know i happen to think that you will find that special someone when your not looking that always happens when you least expect it bam! there he is so enjoy being single sometimes your better off single
2007-01-01 21:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hang in there. i am a man, 54, and very available. don't put much stock in "dating sites". yahoo personals is the best of those.
2007-01-01 23:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont loose hope there is someone for you just have faith i'm much older than you are and i am not scared if someday you had one then im me and give me the good news.
2007-01-01 23:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually happens when you least expect it..........Internet dating is good because you can be upfront about yourself ........I would suggest that you dont be ......"too Upfront" to start with.
good Luck
2007-01-01 22:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wnk said she met the lady in the church, why not go to church , met some people there , then pray too , have worship to god , you knock and he will open the door for u
2007-01-01 21:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋