can a gay man have a true relationship with a woman?

Answer 1

of course he can have a true relationship with a woman, but i don't think it could be a sexual one. and if it was it'd mean it wasn't true or he wasn't gay.

Answer 2

up to you if you want to believe me or not but i had a sexual relationship with a gay man. we was the best of friends for more than a year then one thing led to another and we ended up having a sexual relationship that lasted 2 months. he talked and acted very feminine. i was the first woman he ever went with. he was 30 years old at the time and was gay for many years before me. honest!!

Answer 3

This is a good question.

I think a lot of people ( I read one survey that said as much as 5%) are actually a-sexual, have no sex drive at all.

The survey also said that most of them marry. Happily.

I say horses for courses, if you were totally gay though you would not feel sexual love at any stage in your relationship.

Answer 4

Yes of course a gay man can have a serious relationship with a woman be them either straight or gay. A relationship is not dependant on sexual contact at all.

This is why

My best friend Claire, I call her "Puss", I have known her for 23 years we met as children when she was 7 and I was 9, she is 29 this year and I will be 32. She was the first person I told of my sexuality and she was there for me when I told my family. However she already knew I was gay, as she actually made me tell her without her having to ask directly. She's a cow like that, but I love her.

Anyway we lived together, and she fell pregnant with her partner at the times 1st child. I did not like this man and neither did she to be honest I just didnt feel he was right for her. He did not like me anyway simply because I was gay. "Was I bothered tho" Anyway they split up and she asked me to be her birthing partner. I was so shocked and over the moon. I could not believe that she was giving me the opportunity to be there at the birth of her first Son Jamie.
I can not explain what I felt when Jamie was born, I do remember fainting tho :-) But I did see him born and I can remember being all emotional, I did cry but with tears of joy.

Unfortunately a few months after he was born Puss got back with the baby father and at this time me n Puss were living together. She then fell pregnant again with his 2nd Son Shaun. As always we clashed and we fought, after beating the crap out of him me and Puss had a major arguement, and I left. I knew they were going to be together and I could not be apart of her life. My parting words to here were "What ever you do do not marry that man" I closed the door behind me never to see or speak with her again for 6 years.

I found out that they did get married in Barbados not long after Shaun was born. Even though I was happy for her I was not if you know what I mean. I just knew he was no good. I knew this because, both our parentS, Puss n mine, lived next door to each other all but one door. So on many ocassions I did see her and Steve the now X husband, and she was so not happy I could just tell.
We did fight again me n him, over him calling my mother names, and Puss could not say nothing I could just tell in her eyes. I knew she was sorry at what he had done, but she did not say a thing.

Anyway long story, but after 6 years we eventually got intouch via her sister who asked me to contact Puss. Which I did as I was told that she really need to see me. I did ponder on it for a while, but I did call. Only to find out that he was being very violent and abusive and she needed to get out of her marriage. Obviously we met without his knowing. I was furious both at him and at her. But you know what did it? She said to me "I am so sorry Gary I wish I had listened to you when you walked out that front door 6 years ago" I did not answer her as she had realised her mistake. There was no reason for "I told you so's"

Anyway you can imagine that all hell broke loose, he did not return after a good hidding. And I am happy to say that they divorced after.

We still talk about it now almost 6 years later and have a laugh about it.

The guy she is seeing now, Rob, is a very good bloke and we both get on very well, we have such a laugh and he can accept me for who I am.

The boys now call me Aunty G and my other half Uncle D

They have know about me and my sexuality for a long time and I also know that Jamie knew about me when I was not around as there were pictures of me and he would ask who I was, and Puss would tell him.

I have such a great relationship with the boys. They are just like my own nephews.

As you can tell by the above we all lived happily ever after.

Sorry for the long explaination but you can see how "A gay man can have a relationship with a woman"

I bet a lot of you would call it a friendship, but I do not as she means so much more to me.

It does work.

Gary x