There's this guy I talk to on msn and usually he just does webcam for me and sometimes I do for me and [you can guess what he does] and he's real chatty then but like the next day he might not want to talk to me or not be very talkative compared to when he does webcam?? Please help me.. I'm real confused
2007-01-01 19:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do know this guy personally and I am a girl. And I do it cause I like him but like someone said he's probs just using me.
2007-01-01 19:50:22 · update #1
It means he is a normal guy with a really high sex drive who only cares about himself and getting what he can. This guy won't ever have a true relationship until and unless he changes the way he lives and thinks. Don't go there.
2007-01-01 20:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say whether you are a boy or a girl.
I assume you are a girl.
So, what does this mean? He wants to get into your pants. That's what.
He is doing disgusting things and thinks you like it. Actually, he is a wimp and he does not have the courage to talk to girls. You are leading him on. Just don't encourage him. Remove him from your contacts list. Tell him thats it, no more and do not have any further contact with him. Turn your camera off.
He will try a few times and he will stop.
2007-01-01 19:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
The increased hormonal soup that gets stirred up during adolescence is one of the reasons why boys are suddenly more interested in all things sexual than they were before. It can seem particularly annoying when you're trying to talk to a guy and all he seems to want to do is fool around. Both males and females produce testosterone, but guys have an abundance of it. It's the main male sex hormone, and it's a big part of why some boys can seem so horny all the time.
If you meet someone and want to try to get to know him better, you can let him know that there are other things that you care about. If a guy is truly interested in you as a person and not merely someone to hook up with, then it is likely that he will keep talking to you. If he doesn't, then it's a good sign that this particular boy is letting his hormones guide things.
Sometimes talking about sexual activities is a way for boys to bond and boast with one another, but on his own and with a girl, a particular boy might be less obsessed.
This could also be a way for a boy to mask his own self-consciousness about dealing with girls. He knows he wants to be around girls for some reason, but he might have a hard time articulating how he feels when he is around them. So it might seem easier or more comfortable for him to communicate in this manner, as opposed to dealing with his own feelings and fears.
You should probably also keep this in mind: Deciding whether or not to get involved with someone in any kind of sexual activity is a choice you should make sure to feel comfortable with in each situation. It is very important to feel that you are doing whatever YOU want to do, and not to feel pressure from a partner or potential partner, as they may not always take your feelings into consideration.
If it really seems like every guy is sex-obsessed, you may need to wait things out until they calm down a little. Usually, the hormonal frenzy cools off some as people get older, and you may find that it gets easier to talk to guys later on.
2007-01-02 02:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he's a horny bastard. Cut him lose. It's not like you know him personally. You can find somebody else to chat who's not horny ALL the time and can actually talk about something other than sex.
2007-01-01 19:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really not interested in ......talking, if you know what I mean. Don't take this wrong but I think your nothing more than a extra thrill to go along with his masterbation. Is that a realistic expectation to expect any serious conversation from this guy?
2007-01-01 19:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just like being in bed with your partner, after the fact a males whole system does a 180, sex no longer being important. he doesn't feel the need to be chattie anymore
2007-01-01 20:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by 6986isin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you to get his rocks off. That's the hard truth. I'd drop him. Good Luck ! :)
2007-01-01 19:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He considers u a spectator demanding a 'standing ovation'...
A spectator.
2007-01-01 19:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.thats an easy qn-answer to give.his using you.for pleasure times.i say,stop chatting to him and get a life without him.these are one of the many people we call jerks.
2007-01-01 20:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you haven't figured this one out???
2007-01-01 19:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋