Confront my partner, that's what I'd do. I'm not married, and have more than 10 yrs to do so. But I've witnessed other marriages falling apart, and growing stronger.
Insecurity and problems arise in marriage when two partners hide from each other, which is why I"m suggesting that you confront your husband. Ask him, and tell him you know. Don't do this is an accusing way, but calmly and firmly. Please don't lose your cool. You guys maybe lacking something at home, eg. romance, etc... Maybe he feels like you're pushing him too much, or he needs variety. Find out what's wrong, and try and sort it out.
If that doesn't work, you might have to think about whether you two were meant to be after all.
Wish you all the luck, and I really hope you two can sort it out.
2007-01-01 20:01:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Their has to be a reason 98% of all ppl don't cheat with out a reason the other 2% just like the thrill of getting away with it. And I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater that makes ppl sound like a hard of cows that cant think for themselves a person knows wrong from right
2007-01-02 03:30:38
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answered by notes from an angry white chic 4
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Leave There Sorry Butt..Once A Cheater Most Always Will Stay One..
2007-01-02 03:25:00
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answered by amber 4
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Sit down n have a heart to heart talk with him. If he's willing to give up that woman n love u with all his heart then u can consider wanting him back. If he's not sincere then u better back out, before children is involved.
2007-01-02 03:27:16
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answered by le_snowangel 2
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Divorce!! I refuse to be treated second hand!! We all deserve better!! It's sad that no one respects the true meaning of marriage anymore. I've been there!!
2007-01-02 03:34:59
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answered by TINY822 3
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I'd pack up and leave.
Me and my husband have talked about things, and we both agree on the fact that cheating is a deal breaker.
2007-01-02 03:34:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I hiope you mean the lovers in the past........
He has committed himself to you now. Put those women in the past. Have a talk to him about it if you n eed to.
2007-01-02 04:45:32
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answered by clcalifornia 7
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No Brainer here --Go get tested for every STD known to the human race --Oh that's after you kick them to the curb--
2007-01-02 03:30:16
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answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4
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Leave them. Find someone that will love and respect me.
2007-01-02 03:28:26
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answered by LC 5
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Happened to me.
We're not married anymore.
2007-01-02 03:25:00
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answered by Voodoid 7
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