Well, just a few days ago i asked a question about what to do for my husbands 30th birthday..I got some good ideas but none that have really stuck to me yet. I was thinking about having a 3-some...WOW?..crazy huh?...I know but I would do it for him. I don't know if this is just me feeling extra nice today or what but I'm tripping myself out with even thinking about it. I know that there's a "possibility" of other doors being opened once I do that/allow that to happen but I want his 30th to be memorable and fun...does this make me a lame...SERIOUSLY?
2007-01-01 19:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Nik Nak 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its totally up to you ... and I'm sure you husband probably wouldn't object ...
But, threesomes involving two people that are in a committed relationship almost always end in drama. People think that they can emotionally handle seeing their partner with another person but in reality, they can't. Sometimes one partner, even if they enjoy it at the time, will resent it later and this resentment will spill over into other areas of the relationship. My hunny and I are both adventurous and we've discussed this, but we've decided it is something best left to fantasy ... because neither one of us are honestly prepared to share the other, even for one night.
I wouldn't do it as a spur of the moment surprise ... it should definitely be something that the two of you discuss before you go through with it.
2007-01-01 19:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think that he would want a three-some? maybe you are the one wanting it. if i were you, i would stop and look deeply into WHY either of you would feel the need to invite another person into your bedroom.i certainly cant say for sure, but there is a very good chance that this will come back to bite you both in the in rear-end.and yes-it will definately open doors, or a pandora's box. either way, it can never be taken back. surely you can come up with a more appropriate gift for your hubby.
2007-01-01 19:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to do that. Why can't you have a birthday party with friends or a romantic dinner for two.?
2007-01-01 19:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's correct, you are just looking for trouble. Bad, bad idea.
2007-01-01 19:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do this? What if he likes her more than you? what if you guys catch something? Too many negative possibilities!
2007-01-01 19:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it
2007-01-01 19:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by prekinpdx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AM I INVITED ?!? :)
2007-01-01 19:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋