After the recent break up and cancellation of my dream wedding to my ex-fiancee, its seems like i just cant meet anyone! Im an attractive girl, but i dont know whats been going on lately. Im still pretty upset and depressed about the no-wedding, but what can i do!?
2007-01-01 18:57:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I want to meet someone, but dont really want to get too serious. I go out with my girlfriends alot but, i donnt know, things have been pretty hard.
2007-01-01 18:59:13 · update #1
Take your time. Just go hang out with friends and stuff for now. You dont need a guy in your life for now. Maybe youre ex and you will end up getting back together after time or else you will find someone. I found mine when i wasnt expecting to find love. Let it find you not you find it
2007-01-01 19:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give yourself time. Make a list of all the good things you can think of about yourself and remember that he is missing all of that.
you should think in other terms also, the fact that if he cancelled the wedding it is better than if you were married and he cheated on you or left you after a year or two.
In the field of Dreams, I believe it was, there was a line "build it and they will come" but the same applies to life! Build yourself up to all that you can be, all that you can become, and he, the perfect person will come for you. your ex-fiancee must not have been him or he wouldn't have cancelled the wedding!!
2007-01-02 03:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give yourself some time to heal. If you are a attractive young woman and have your head on straight. That good guy will come your way. You have to say to yourself it was his lost and someone else's gain. I have notice a lot of people are running from the good in life and not wanting to do the right things. Did you ask him why he called it off?
2007-01-02 03:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by neenarosdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if what happened to you wasn't hard & painful, then everybody that suffered the same thing would be changing partners as quick as changing their shirts. it really takes time time heal all wounds. it could be weeks, months, or even years. just take it slowly and try to enjoy your new found freedom
2007-01-02 03:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, someone great will come into your life.
keep your head up
2007-01-02 03:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋