Okay, so about a month ago, one of my very close friends & I had a disagreement/misunderstanding. So we kinda stopped talking for a while, except a few sweet but short convos via msn. Now today, she started talking to me through msn, so I replied with hi how are ya. She's been saying stuff like not bad. She never asked how I was doing. So I asked about her xmas so far and what not? She says, not bad. And to whatever I've been saying it was very short words, or lol. So I asked if she was okay, and shes like yah, im on the phone with my bf, so I asked questions about them and stuff. I carried on, by asking what else new and whatever. She asked twice things that was like And you? But apart from that, I was carrying the whole conversation. What the heck? I just find it really weird that she talks, but doesnt have much to say? What kind of game is she trying to play? It's really getting me ticked off.
2007-01-01 18:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i said sorry. i tried solving it, but shed say forget it, i dont wanna talk about it and whatever. it really makes me mad because she always wants to forget and yet the issue is still gonna be there if nothing is talked about, no boundaries are settled and whatever. she said everything was fine though once.
2007-01-01 19:14:05 · update #1
sounds like she either want s you to say shes sorry or she doesnt know how good of a friend she wnats to be anymore. She knows she wants to be your friend but best friends? Probably not anymore. I had a friend like this and we drifted apart and no longer talk. We used to be together all the time
2007-01-01 18:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to grovel and suck up and tell her you're sorry or some such crap. Don't get sucked into her game. End the conversation, don't make any attempt to talk to her, and wait to see if she panics that you have not behaved in the way she wants/expects you to. She will either suck up to you, or ignore you completely. If it is the latter - say goodbye to the friendship and move on.
2007-01-02 05:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by snazzproductions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has probably not forgiven you completely for your disagreement. Maybe you should confront her about it and make sure everything is all worked out and hopefully she'll be able to get past your arguement and realize that its stupid to be mad and that you guys should be friends again. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 02:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be the online version of the silent treatment. she's tired of not talking to you like you used to, and she wants everything to go back to the way it was, but she doesnt want to say shes sorry, so she's trying to get you to really miss talking to her and come out and say your sorry first.
2007-01-02 03:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to put distance with her till she realizes your coldness and let her be the one to be worried of why you're not talking to her, instead of you acting this way. Go on with your life. Treat her the way she is with you. In that case, you're not giving importance to her and you won't feel bad.
2007-01-02 03:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes asking you to resolve the disagreement/misunderstanding.
2007-01-02 02:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her yourself, she can give you the "best answer".
2007-01-02 02:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can reall like to be her self
2007-01-02 02:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by theangelofdeath 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's a whore.
2007-01-02 02:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋