I am a 25 year old successful, attractive black woman. I am a manager in a computer securities company, and I own and operate my own restaurant. I take very good care of my body, and try to dress with style. I've been told that I have a very nice personality ... I am not loud or obnoxious in public, even though black women are stereotyped as being so. However, when I am at the club or on an outing, every black man I see is always interested in talking to white women. I don't really have a problem with inter-racial dating, but it seems that black men are incapable of noticing a sweet, sexy black woman. Thoughts? Ideas?
2007-01-01 18:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by *bittersweetchocolate* 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Color is not a big issue for me ... however, I happen to find men of my race more attractive. Is this so strange?
2007-01-01 19:04:02 · update #1
Maybe you're looking in the wrong place. Clubs aren't great places to find "Take home to Momma Men". And maybe they're Intimidated by your success, hey who knows :)... Have you tried Hawaiians? lol
2007-01-01 20:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look back on what you have written....
This is a young, strong, bold, assertive,
opinionated, self reliant, black woman.
Maybe they just want something easier.
A powerful woman can scare a man
away, before he gets a chance to
see the sweet and sexy part of her.
Momma use to say...........
When you go fishing, it's all about the bait.
2007-01-01 19:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
theyve probably just had bad experieces with black women in the past, or want to avoid the problems their friends have, such as baby mama drama and clingy women. its not fair that they dont give black women a chance, but in truth, all they probably see you as is another stereotypical black woman
2007-01-01 19:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am an Native American and I see that very plainly.
But it is probably good for you.
Don't look for color when you go out and you may find your man.
2007-01-01 19:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Stephie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that black men perfer black women.
2007-01-01 20:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋