What should I do???
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2007-01-01 18:43:40 · 1 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound like a great guy. I am concerned though, that long term, your feelings for each other will not be enough to replace the intimacy and affection that you desire. I think you are setting yourself up for a heartache.
The one thing I could advise is that you consider talking to her openly about your need for physical affection and your feeling that she is uncomfortable with that kind of closeness. Perhaps she has a reason for this that the two of you could overcome together.
GBY
2007-01-02 08:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋