Ok, heres the story.on friday he came home and told me he just came back from the local bar and had a beer before he came home. I was upset because he took my car and had a beer in his system while driving. He wasnt drunk or anything but I was still upset. He got mad at me and said that he has his own life and will go there whenever he wants. I took a nap and later in the evening I woke up and suggested that we go to the same bar. I said OK I will meet you there, so I got ready and got there about an hour later. While I was walking inside I became INFURIATED becuase he was at the bar and talking to another woman. I just snapped, and as I got between them I said "who the f--- is this?" He was drunk at then and I was just so mad. I told him to go home with his new girlfriend, and preceded to tell him that I would rip the dead rat off the top of his head, and I grabbed his shirt. He started talking smack, saying I was psycho, etc, and he got the tab so he could leave.I wanted to look at..
2007-01-01 18:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the bill to see what he ordered but he grabbed it before me. I finally got the bill and saw that there was a drink ordered for the woman, so I just snapped and slapped him real hard across the face. Then he all of a sudden punched me. and then shoved me, he started to leave and then a few guys walked out behind him and threatened to punch him. The cops got called and took pics of my face, etc etc, and then arrested him at home(he walked) what kinda hurts is that my dad bailed him out of jail... it was stupid I know but what do I do now??
2007-01-01 18:39:03 · update #1
You both sound like alcoholic retards. You deserve each other. Stay with him so you don't contaminate the dating pool for everyone else.
2007-01-01 18:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were both at fault but aside from the hitting and slapping, the fact that he stopped for a beer on the way hom and went to the bar and was buying drink for this other woman shows that he is not committed to you so you should pack and leave - or if the apartment is in your name, throw him out. Coulseling might help if there was any kind of committment between the two of you but what what you said I sense that there is not and hasn't been for some time since you moved in together.
2007-01-01 19:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weighing in with my two cents worth. YOU are the psycho. You are rude and obnoxious and have absolutely NO control over yourself. As others have said, YOU hit him first. Slapped hard or punched, same difference. You started the brawl. And before that you got up in his face and verbally abused him in several ways and grabbed him taking it to the physical level. I suspect your relationship with him is shot to hell. You need psychological counselling and need to figure out a way to get yourself under control before you even consider a romantic relationship with anyone. I suggest starting by reading the scriptures. If they have SOME impact on you, that would be a good start.
Good luck
2007-01-01 18:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In each and every relatives voilence case see you later as there is information of relatives violence the police officer has no determination yet to take the party into custody.. once theyre in custody new regulations make it the position the case is transfered to the District lawyer and they automaticaly press expenses. that's because many circumstances someone receives the crap beat out of them and then say they dont opt for to press expenses so it waisted officials and courtroom time and resorces. because you actual hit him first.. it would want to were you going to penitentiary. i'd propose that you're taking a smash from that man or woman and consentrate on your self. If someone is going to misinform you and then punch you interior the face... um thats a superb signal he really doesnt look after you. Its complicated to enable issues bypass.. study from experiance the first time via.. i'd not be so exceptionally next time
2016-10-16 23:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you assaulted him first. Does not excuse his action but you should have been arrested as well . Obviously you both are abusive and should not be together and neither of you should be with anyone until you go through counseling. Regardless of the situation, hitting is never an option for either of you. If you are incapable of containing your rage you should be locked up or at the very least receiving psychiatric care.
2007-01-01 18:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has gone too far. He may make you angry - but you had no right to slap him in the first place. Granted, he should never have punched you (it IS worse that he punched you) - BUT, it's become physical, you don't trust him and he's obviously not trustworthy. Just end it - it's not working.
2007-01-01 18:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell the cops the truth.. and the judge / magistrate if it comes down to it. Thing is it sounds like you may have instigated it by hitting him first. If he's guilty of domestic violence, then so are you.
2007-01-01 18:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your night out starts to sound like an episode of Cops, it's probably a sign that you need to leave.
2007-01-01 18:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As angry as you were at his behavior, you have to control your anger. You should plainly see this guy is a complete loser and not worth that kind of chaos. Your dad is way wrong for bailing him out. Maybe that is where you learned it is OK for violence to happen. It is not! Get out of that relationship before you are hurt more both physically and emotionally.
2007-01-01 18:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave this relationship. It is only going to get worse. once a man start hitting you this is a red flag. He must not be satisfied with the relationship that you two have.
2007-01-01 18:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋