my friend said that this guy whom i have a crush on is insecure because he isn't good looking and have a face full of pimples..he looks really unfriendly and they say the reason he's like this because he didn't want other people to judge him and so he's giving this kind of unfriendly and aloof appearance..i passed him a note so i can start being friends with me but it's been 2 days and he hasn't gotten back..i guess he might be too shock cause no one has ever done that or maybe he might think i'm playing a prank on him..do u think he's being insecure or something else?i'm a pretty confident girl and my friends said i'm sweet and sophisticated..so what's the problem here?
2007-01-01 18:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what the problem is why are you attracted to this insecure guy? that's what I am thinking as i bet he is to, so you have to give him a lot more information in person to get any where with him
2007-01-01 18:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the "social classes". In junior high (at least mine) there's usually some type of class. Castes ,chains of command, etc etc etc. Is this guy a nerd and you're a prep? Other way around? Does the guy get picked on a lot? maybe he just doesn't want to hang out with you. You gotta get to know the guy- a note won't work! Be friends. Talk to the guy. Just say "Hi" in the hall. Keep doing it, let him know it's not just a one time thing. And maybe you're too confident that this guy'll like you. If you're too confident you can get this guy and it shows, he'll just think you're wanting him because you know you can get him. Don't take too much for granted. Look at every option. That's what I'd say.
2007-01-02 02:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mongoose Stalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go straight up to him and ask if he got your note. Then he will have to respond to you. Sounds like a very insecure person and it's really nice of you to attempt to be his friend. Keep trying, sometimes people will think you have other motives. Good luck
2007-01-02 02:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he might think you are playing a prank on him..... write him another one!
It's possible he is shy and reading your note over and over. Trying to figure things out. n
2007-01-02 02:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes u! but he doesn't know how to tell u! maybe he thinks that u sayin that u want to be his friend is like saying there's no way there could ever be a me and you! sorry if it's not wat ur after but it's wat i think could also be a prossability!
2007-01-02 02:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by I'LL LUV RICH BOYS 4 U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋