why do guys only perfer skinny pretty girls instead of chubby girls i mean they're no different but only have more love on them so its not their fault that they're chubby/fat you might think that its their fault because they control their own diet but its not their fault maybe they are just big boned but anyways why do guys perfer girls that are so skinny ......is it because guys just like to judge a girl by what they look like and then decides if that they are good or bad i mean you have to talk to the girl to see whats shes like ..............................so screw you guys that judge girls by their looks!!!!!
2007-01-01 18:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by somebody 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
I dated a guy once who only liked chubby girls. We broke up only because he got a job that took him away from where we lived and didn't know when we'd see each other again. While he was gone, I lost a significant amount of weight. He looked me up when he was back in town, and when we met at the club, he didn't have much to say to me. I don't know if he was intimidated by my 'thinness' or what. So, not all guys only like thin girls.
Obviously there has to be something that attracts a person to another initially. This is typically looks. But personality DOES have a lot to do with it, too. Are you as bitter as your question might have you seem? If so, you could be sending this message as a turn-off to guys. I've been there! When you feel good about yourself, you look better ~ regardless of size. Take care of yourself. Don't use size as an excuse. And who really cares if a guy isn't attracted to you? There are others out there! But be honest, too. Is the guy(s) you're thinking about as you wrote your question chubby? Just a thought. I'm not saying that 'chubby' girls should only be attracted to 'chubby' guys, but ARE you? Be fair! And try not to get bitter. It's easier to lose the weight than to lose bitterness. Believe me.
2007-01-02 00:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by shellbugger 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont like Stick Insects I much prefer Girls with a bit of flesh on there Bones. I think they are more Sexier more of a turn on than Skinny Girls. As I get older I dont really mind the Weight of a Person at all. I have found that the very slim Girls have a very Narcistic view of themselves and think they are above everyone else in the World. I have found that the most nicest girls are the ones with a bit of Weight on themselves,They often have the most Pleasant of manners and very easy to get along with.Unlike the Skinny Types who have a Neurosis about themselves and are Psychotic sometimes Anerexic Nervosa
and Bulimic.I suppose the most Ideal would be a well Developed Girl with a Beautiful Face And Manner,something like ,Raquel Welch,Gina Lollobridgida, Marilyn Monroe Etc.It is
not just the Face and Body but the overall Package. I hope This Helps you, Would you chill out Please Relaxe dont be worrying
so much.
2007-01-02 01:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by janus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hate to tell you but I personally like a girl with a little meat on her bones. have a tendency to " bear hug " a girl and if She is skinny I have a tendency to hug tight, which can hurt if I'm not careful. besides generally speaking remember a pleasingly plump girl has more to give than a skinny girl as She generally a better cook. remember " good looks don't last good cookin' do. "
2007-01-02 09:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's not true, I love chubby girls.
2007-01-02 04:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
guys are not interested if your fat or thin after a few drinks on a wkend they don't care what she looks like... if the girl is willing and the guy is keen??????? Your better off meeting a guy in a different environment like work or other social outings other than a nightclub where there is drink involved and he cant see straight!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 10:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bud 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋