What is a nice or polite way of asking a friend to give you space? I enjoy being her friend and she makes me laugh and everything. But she gets so hurt because I don't approve all of her comments on myspace. I have a lot of suspicions to believe she likes me. (not going to go there)
She is in a relationship with a guy too and has kids. So, hmm don't know what her deal is really.
2007-01-01 18:04:28 · 4 answers · asked by zombiefrog 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just tell her she's taking up too much bandwidth with all her posts to your "myspace" page and are pushing other's comments out of the way.
Ask her nicely to back off and not post so much on your "myspace" page.
I had a supposedly straight friend who did the same thing. She as always hanging around me, coming over unannounced, insisting upon taking up much of my time.
I even got to the point that when she came over, I actually pretended not to be there. I wouldn't answer the door and just waited for her to go away. I wouldn't answer the phone when she called and would not respond to her at work.
I don't know what it is, but there are some straight women out there who are absolutely fascinated by lesbians and will do anything to get close, even too close to us.
I am and at the time was in a relationship. Her coming over and calling at all hours was a real point of stress on my relationship. Granted, my partner wasn't so much as jealous of her, but moreso wary of her intentions. Needless to say it creeped me out big time.
Finally she got the point and left us alone, but it felt like it would never end at the time.
2007-01-01 20:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if you call her your friend then you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel.
Also if you have suspicions that she has the hots for you and you are not into it, say so.
Be truthfull, and if she doesnt want to be your friend after telling her why your being truthfull, then the hell with her.
2007-01-02 05:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just point out that you aren't as into Myspace as she is, so you don't check it out much.
2007-01-02 02:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont be rude
if you are saying what i think you are
just say
sorry im not like that
and if she persists to make you uncomfortable
cut your ties to her
2007-01-02 02:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Josephus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋