i always tried to help everyone.and i want them to love and care me as i did. except my mother and two sister there is noone in this earth who likes me.but i was always good with tem and never hurt anyone.i spent furtune to bring my brother in law here in australia but since after he came here he is just chaged and says i am irritating person.but everything this i say are for his betterment. i know i am bit tuff with nature but i am very soft hearted.i give them that care which i havent even given to my dad.
i want him to help me in household buthe is just sleeping and gets angry when i asked him anything. he is a good driver , and i want him to drive here in melbourne but he think i am trying to be his boss. i want heim to learn how to drive here , i want him to learn how to read maps, and i want him to get information as much as he can in the first instance.he think i an again trying to be his boss. he take everything negative and he hates me . what can i do?? Please help me
2007-01-01 18:03:13 · 3 answers · asked by abharam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
every thing you do for others has a price tag on it and you are trying to convince everyone it is because you have a good heart, If you do some thing for some one to help them , you do not have the right to ask them to do some thing for you. . And this is not how you help people. you want them to return the favour, and they are not willing to, so maybe you had better rethink you helping people strategy
2007-01-01 18:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only help someone who wants to help themselves. All the good people want the best for their love ones, but if they don't want it or even try to better than lives: we can't do it for them. I don't see anything wrong with you wanting the best for you family, but you can only do so much and then it's time for you to let it go and give them that chance to make it.
2007-01-02 02:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by neenarosdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do smth good u shouldn't expect he/she gives u smth back or be grateful. it means u re doing smth for fame, which is not good. so u were doing good not for your relative but for yourself - u did it for his adoration. and he doesn't adore u so u re pissed now. so do not help anyone then, what else u can do
2007-01-02 02:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋