If they're dating that's all well and good, but why do all the other waitresses I work with sleep with the manager? He's nothing special. Thank you, and goodnight.
2007-01-01 17:43:57 · 6 answers · asked by s s 1 in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
Is this ethical? In my opinion no. I would really check into your Restaurants business ethics code as this probably is not allowed because of the whole authoritive figure thing. Management could really get into big trouble if this situation was brought to higher authorative figures. It is not right and could also lead to sexual harrasment lawsuits later on or even blackmail.
2007-01-05 10:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afterward there is a small shift in power. Now the girl knows she can get what she wants...the best shifts, the days off that she wants, the best sections. The manager will do what he can to make sure that no one, including his boss, finds out about their little affair. And if he pisses her off, she could ruin his career with just a little rumor. It's all about getting what you want.
2007-01-03 11:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by iammegawatt4202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in restaurants for 20 years- there's always massive flirting & sexual discussions going on, but I've never seen actual sex with managers. But I would imagine its the whole authority-figure thing, thinking thats gonna get them a raise (he he he). He's an *** for doing it.
2007-01-02 09:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me, the men in the position of authority should be the ones we really should be questioning...The girls always seem way young, working their way through school or something. And the managers always seem to be those guys that probably couldn't score those kind of chicks unless they were the boss of them.
I am a female restaurant manager who used to date a manager in the business, and he always aimed for the hostesses...and still does...sad...what's he going to do when those girls label him "the old creepy guy" or maybe they already have...
2007-01-02 02:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by wendi t 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
they workin hard for that raise lol
2007-01-02 01:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_alzan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tips
2007-01-02 02:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋