This is the one she used for this previous question...I told my ex wife to be that the Cell I pay for for her to text her new Long Dist (6 hrs) BF is being shut off
along with my step daughters and now she is all pissy and said if it was me with a GF she would be ok and want me to be happy so there is no way she'd do it. Now she's in the other room bitching to the LDist BF about me. Isn't he just laughing at me??? I just can't take anymore of it... does it make any sense?? Why should be pissy with me 600 text messages to him in 2 days...thank god it's free... END OF PREVIOUS QUESTION
NOW SHE USES THE INTER NET TO CHAT W/ Long Distance BF.... Should I shut that off too? My 12 y/o step daughter uses it though... How do I get her out of the house w/o being an a ss? It is just hell... Now she won't talk to me and blames me for cutting off her communication with her mom in Mexico & Her daughter when she gets home from school... How can I feel better?
2007-01-01 17:29:39 · 15 answers · asked by gueroslaptop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you ever seen War of the Roses?
You guys need to fix the housing situation...or something is going to give, eventually. Don't bother to cut off the Internet, it doesn't have the same cost curve as a cell phone. Her excessive Internet use isn't going to cost you $500, and you don't want to punish the children unnecessarily. Besides, you can use the Internet to come onto Y!A and we'll (generally) take your side against the shrew, if that makes you feel better. I know it has got to just suck knowing that she's on the Internet chatting with her new BF, stay focused, get the divorce done and one of you out of the house.
2007-01-01 17:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by David G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are paying for all this stuff and you are getting a divorce you have every right to shut things off. She is using our God given talents to make you feel bad. If she wants to call her mom then tell her to go to a payphone or a friends house. Your step-daughter will just have to not use the Internet. She will get over it. And if the roles were reversed and she was paying for the cellphones she would have a fit if you text messaged your girlfriend everyday. If you own the house then set a time limit and make her be out by that time. If it is her house then you need to be the one to leave. If you are both renting you should pack your stuff and get out. Make her pay the bills. Good luck on whatever you do.
2007-01-01 17:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get her out there before you absolutely lose your mind. Do you what you have to do. If you need to cut everything off, do it and let her know she has thirty days to find a new place to live. She doesn't respect you or value you. Yes, they all are laughing at you and using you. You deserve to be treated better. If you've divorced her she needs to get a life of her own, not still be in yours driving you mad. Tell her to go live with the BF. Make sure you take the time to explain it to the step-daughter as adults. Then move on with your life.
2007-01-01 17:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you two are still married it is her house too. If you are getting a divorce and you two have agree that you keep the house or a judge has said that you keep the house then all you have to do is MAKE HER LEAVE. If it comes down to it call the cops.
If she is wanting to talk to her long distence boyfriend the tell her she can pay for it by her paying for the internet . Then shut if off.
2007-01-01 18:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, turn all her things back on and be used like a sap and support her even when she moves out so you can feel better about yourself
first time i heard of a guy who likes being treated like c r a p because it makes him feel better
i would kick her out right now and tell her to have her boyfriend find her a place to stay
then i would tell her daughter to remember this because when she grows up she shouldn't treat people the way you are being treated
just kick her out and move on, simple as that
2007-01-01 18:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel bad. Give her 2 or 3 weeks to find her own place, you don't need that pressure and stress in your life. She is using her daughter to get what she wants.
2007-01-01 17:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she has moved on so, the only things you should be paying for are your bills. Let her new guy pick up the tab if she's so into him. Why are you still living together anyway? Get out, good bye and good riddens.
2007-01-01 17:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by lifeizgud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave before it gets out of control take what ever you need to start fresh and go i did it hurts like hell for about 6 months then you just stop thinking about it if you have kids they will find you when there ready good luck
2007-01-01 17:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Stan Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer trouble approximately it. he's on trip and im specific he's the two extremely busy or something befell to his telephone. merely permit him relax and luxuriate in his holiday. If he's coming back homestead on the instant then you definately do no longer would desire to attend long. you're able to do it. i'm specific you would be speaking top away.
2016-10-06 07:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well simply talk it through with an couselur nor someone else you really trust that they will help you for the right things.
2007-01-01 17:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by RB- is happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋