My girlfriend of six years left me on Saturday. We have been living with each other since two months of dating. She stated she needs time to herself and wants to be alone. She said she fell out of love with me and we floated in different directions in life. I am a business man and she is a full time student, I supported her for the past six years and she did not have to even work. She left me on Thursday night. She came back on Saturday with her family and moved all her stuff out. I can not fathom the thought of walking away from this six years we had together. We have cars, a house and many other investments together even though we are not married. I don't know what to do right now but keep my family and friends as close to me as possible. Please if there is any questions or advice, post them, thank you in advance.
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2007-01-01 17:24:13 · 9 answers · asked by Calm as a cucumber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try a girlfriend younger than her that do it . my opion?
2007-01-01 17:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if i am ur mother i would want to know exactly how u feel and be able to comfort u, becasue u r my son & i love u. second, think that u cannot take all the best in the world - problems/bump road are just too many to face - thus, these are just one of those. third, ur young and u have a good future, move on with ur own life. Think what the world can offer to a generous guy like u. You will soon be blessed with a girl u will really deserve (and u better ask God to grant u this!). Lastly, DON'T GO AFTER HER, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE U AT ALL!!!
2007-01-01 19:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lyndajoie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A house, cars and other personal possessions do not guarantee a happy relationship. I don't know what made your girlfriend leave, but people's feelings for one another change all the time, and that's obviously what happened in her case. The best thing you can do for yourself is not sit around and dwell on your unhappiness, but to get into activities that will take your mind off your problems. Take a class, join a sports club, volunteer somewhere, anything that gets you out of the house and mingling with people.
2007-01-01 17:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this time you are probably not thinking with your head but with your heart, since your heartbroken. I am sorry you feel this way since you invested a lot of time with this woman. But these days even with marriage there is no warranty in a relationship. You need to get up and start getting all your personal and materialistic things you invested together. Don't let people take advantage of you because trust me they know your hurt and they will fool you. Why do you think she moved out so quick? I think she's playing her cards pretty quick and you need to step up. This is not about money or being selfish, but at this time you need to start moving on with your things. Try to settle it with her in a peaceful way...if not then get a lawyer. After that you will need to be strong and let time heal the pain. Who knows how long it will take, but theres always a start. In the end, be honest to yourself...you know why it didn't work. It wasn't meant to be in the end, and that's it. Be strong and think smart.
2007-01-01 17:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it myself..... I'm the gal in your story, contemplating my future. I believed that love would grow, and as in stories of old, that if it wasn't love at first sight, love would come in time. Now, almost 10 years later, I just don't know. I don't really care, and I feel rather indifferent towards him. I don't know how it happened, or when it changed. I don't know if I changed, or if he did or we both did. I don't know if it was time, or circumstances or experiences, or what. I just don't love him like I once did. I do not want to see him hurt, yet I think that there has to be more to life than this, so yeah, someday, I may be the one to walk away and find myself.... cause if this is me. =( I don't want to be me anymore. I know that this isn't a real good answer, but really, don't blame yourself for her decision. We women tend to think a lot, and sometimes it gets us in trouble.
2007-01-01 17:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by cakenicing4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not pursue her any further. She obviously has another agenda on her mind than being with you. Not to judge, but you guys have been in troubled waters for a while it seems. You don't just shut love off, it dwindles with time. She had to have been planning this for a while. Let her go and if it is meant to be, she will return. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2007-01-02 04:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Richard Fitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it will hurt for a long time just try to remember that the world is a wheel and for every bad day you have one beautiful one coming to you.
2007-01-01 17:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's all you can do...I guess you need to get a lawyer and settle your investments etc....if she no longer loves you, you will need to just move on with your life...it will be tough but you can do it....settle stuff first..then take time to heal...good luck
2007-01-01 17:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, this is one of lifes learning bumps in the road
2007-01-01 18:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋