tampon HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

okay well, i am 13, and a couple weeks ago i decided to use a tampon. so i bought tampax pearl, and i tried to insert it, but i can't see the hole i'm supposed to insert it in. i tried the whole "one leg up" thing, but it still didn't work. it hurt soo much when I was trying to put it in, and and i only got it maybe one and a half centimeters in b/c it was so painful i couldnt go on, and when i took it out, it hurt sooo bad. can you tell me what im doing wrong, or help me please because I love to swim and do gymnastics and i don't want my period to slow me down from doing the things i love. please help me.

Answer 1

This shouldn't hurt at all. It might be uncomfortable and feel alittle wierd (to much pressure in the area) First examin the area with your finger to make sure your in the right hole there are two in the vaginal area (vaginal opening and urinal tract opening). Next make sure you are starting with the tampon for younger ladies or light flow. You can work up to larger ones if need be. Also read the insert that comes in the box it has pictures and directions.

Answer 2

Choose the smallest size tampon for the first time. By following these simple guidelines, and those that come with your package of tampons, your first experience with tampons should be easy.

Sit or stand in a comfortable position. Some women prefer to place one leg on the toilet seat or tub, while others prefer to squat down. After you find a position that is most comfortable for you, hold the tampon with the fingers that you write with. Hold the middle of the tampon, at the spot where the smaller, inner tube inserts into the larger, outer tube. Make sure the string is visible and pointing away from your body.


With your other hand, open the labia (the folds of skin around the vaginal opening) and position the tampon in the vaginal opening.


Gently push the tampon into the opening, aiming for the small of your back. Stop when your fingers touch your body and the applicator, or outer tube, is completely inside the vagina.


Once the applicator or outer tube is inside of you, use your index finger to push the inner tube (the tube where the removal string is connected) through the outer tube.


Once the inner tube is all the way in, use your thumb and middle finger to remove the applicator or outer tube. Make sure that the string hangs outside of the vaginal opening. Later, when you are ready to remove the tampon, hold the string and gently pull it downward until the entire tampon is out.
If the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted the tampon incorrectly or the tampon may not be placed far enough into the vagina. If this happens, just remove the tampon and start again with a new tampon. Remember that practice makes perfect. If you don't get it on the first try, your second try will most likely be successful. Instead of getting frustrated and giving up, relax and try again!

What if I still don't succeed?
If you don't succeed after several times, see your health care provider. It may be that you were born with a very small opening in your hymen and you can't insert tampons. This is true in only about 2% of teens, but it could be a problem.
A mirror is often helpful so that you can see where your vaginal opening is. Sometimes, even using a small amount of vaginal lubricant (K-Y Jelly) on the end of the tampon will help the first one glide in.

What is TSS?
You've probably heard of this disease before, and how it may be connected to tampon use. TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) is an infection that is very rare, but potentially dangerous. TSS can affect anyone, male or female. However, it occurs most frequently in young women who wear tampons. You will probably never get TSS, but it's good to know what the symptoms are and how to avoid putting yourself at risk.
You've probably heard of this disease before, and how it may be connected to tampon use. TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome) is an infection that is very rare, but potentially dangerous. TSS can affect anyone, male or female. However, it occurs most frequently in young women who wear tampons. You will probably never get TSS, but it's good to know what the symptoms are and how to avoid putting yourself at risk.
Tampons themselves do not cause TSS. TSS is caused by bacteria called Staphylococcus aureus. When a tampon is left inside your vagina for too long, it creates a perfect environment for different types of bacteria, including Staphylococcus aureus, to grow. To avoid developing TSS, follow these guidelines when using tampons:
Change your tampons at least every 4-8 hours or more often if necessary.
Choose the correct tampon absorbency. Use smaller sized tampons when your flow is lighter. TSS occurs more often when super-absorbent tampons are used. Don't use these unless your menstrual flow is particularly heavy.
Alternate between pad and tampon use. You might want to use pads at night, and tampons in the daytime.
Wash your hands before inserting or taking out your tampon.
Don't use tampons to absorb anything other than your menstrual flow. Only insert a tampon once menstrual blood is present.
If you experience the following symptoms while wearing a tampon, remove the tampon, and contact your health care provider immediately! These symptoms may seem similar to the flu. If they occur while you are menstruating and wearing a tampon, they may signal TSS. Otherwise, it might mean that you have another infection. It is recommended that you see your health care provider regardless. Symptoms of TSS include:
Sudden high fever
A sunburn-like rash
Diarrhea
Dizziness, fainting, or lightheadedness
Vomiting

Answer 3

First question, sorry for this, are you inserting in the right hole? Somtimes it is just because of vaginal dryness. I know you are on your period, but the vaginal canal is not moist enough to make it comfortable. Maybe until you get used to inserting them, put a little KY jelly or A and D ointment on the syringe part of the tampon.
This is a very sensitive topic for a girl and I understand your frustration. Just try to relax when inserting it. Dont tense up. Change them every 6 to 8 hours to prevent infection. Good luck sweetie....
Being a women is awful sometimes.

Answer 4

Maybe u should ask u mom to help you......putting a tampon in shouldn't hurt....there are only three holes down there...the urethra(pee hole) vagina and anus......and they go in that order..the pee hole is way too small to insert anything into it....try using ur finger to find the correct opening and once u find it insert ur tampon while standing up and push it towards ur back and up a little bit if it hurts then stop and try again.....if u can't figure it out ask the nurse at school...also i have heard of people putting ky jelly on the tampon first to help it slide in easier...put it on the applicator the outside of it

Answer 5

Ok, since you've never used one before, whatever tampon you choose, make sure it's the "junior" or "lite" size - it's the smallest.

Try to find it with your finger - you're not really going to be able to see it very well. It is RIGHT next to your butt hole (sorry to be so gross) and so if you find that, move just a little forward and try to stick your finger in to open the hole up a little and loosen it.

This is embarassing, but my mother had to help me do it the first time. I am sure your mother or older sister or some female you trust would help you out if you asked, if you really still can't find it.

Answer 6

Try sitting on the toilet with your legs spread way apart and insert it that way...if it still hurts, try the tampons for teens, they are much smaller and may be more conferable for you. You may be using something that is to large. Maybe ask your mother for some pointers. (moms are good for that kind of stuff).

Answer 7

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Answer 8

hey im 13 too & i started using tampons the 1st time i got my period about half way through it because i couldn't stand pads they feel like diapers & yeah like the other people said just ask an older women like mom, sister, aunt, cousin, etc.

Answer 9

I have the same problem with the hole part so i use slim they are the smalles size u can get. and i got my tampon in so u will eventually.

good luck

Answer 10

Try using a tampon with a plastic applicator. Cardboard applicators are very uncomfortable to use.